My BF recently expressed he feels I don’t explore/pleasure his body as much as he does to mine.
this hurts because I care about his pleasure and I’m not intentionally trying to ignore it, and I want him to feel fulfilled. For context, I do give him lengthy blow jobs pretty regularly and enjoy doing so. I try to be mindful of biting/scratching him as he likes that, but I can’t force it to an abundant, frenzied extreme unless I feel animalistic from the pleasure i am receiving.
I asked him for more clarity on what I can do more of and he said he doesn’t 100% know, that I need to explore. I do acknowledge that I’ve been this way with all my partners. I focus my giving on blow jobs, but I don’t kiss/touch/explore other parts of the body as much as they do to me. and I tend to get lost in my pleasure at times that it’s hard to yank myself out.
hoping folks can share what they like to receive in terms of foreplay and sexual pleasure as a man (other than intercourse or blowjobs), or what others have experimented doing to a man that’s been met with satisfaction. I really need some ideas because this is uncharted territory for me. thank you!
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r/sex My BF recently expressed he feels I don’t explore/pleasure his body as much as he does to mine. this hurts because I care about his pleasure and I’m not intentionally trying to ignore it, and I want him to feel fulfilled. For context, I do give him lengthy blow jobs pretty regularly and enjoy doing so. I try to be mindful of biting/scratching him as he likes that, but I can’t force it to an abundant, frenzied extreme unless I feel animalistic from the pleasure i am receiving. I asked him for more clarity on what I can do more of and he said he doesn’t 100% know, that I need to explore. I do acknowledge that I’ve been this way with all my partners. I focus my giving on blow jobs, but I don’t kiss/touch/explore other parts of the body as much as they do to me. and I tend to get lost in my pleasure at times that it’s hard to yank myself out. hoping folks can share what they like to receive in terms of foreplay and sexual pleasure as a man (other than intercourse or blowjobs), or what others have experimented doing to a man that’s been met with satisfaction. I really need some ideas because this is uncharted territory for me. thank you! submitted by /u/tv_ra_ax_nx_se_d [link] [comments]
My BF recently expressed he feels I don’t explore/pleasure his body as much as he does to mine.
this hurts because I care about his pleasure and I’m not intentionally trying to ignore it, and I want him to feel fulfilled. For context, I do give him lengthy blow jobs pretty regularly and enjoy doing so. I try to be mindful of biting/scratching him as he likes that, but I can’t force it to an abundant, frenzied extreme unless I feel animalistic from the pleasure i am receiving.
I asked him for more clarity on what I can do more of and he said he doesn’t 100% know, that I need to explore. I do acknowledge that I’ve been this way with all my partners. I focus my giving on blow jobs, but I don’t kiss/touch/explore other parts of the body as much as they do to me. and I tend to get lost in my pleasure at times that it’s hard to yank myself out.
hoping folks can share what they like to receive in terms of foreplay and sexual pleasure as a man (other than intercourse or blowjobs), or what others have experimented doing to a man that’s been met with satisfaction. I really need some ideas because this is uncharted territory for me. thank you!
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