So recently my girlfriend has a had a very low sex drive. I’m always the one that initiates sex, and 75% of the time she says she doesn’t feel like it. She’s stressed at work, which I completely understand can affect your sex drive, but she’s also masturbating two of three times a week to porn. We’ve always been pretty open about that subject.
It’s it common to have low sex drive, but still be horny enough to masturbate regularly? We’re in a great place, emotionally. We love each other a lot, so I’m not worried that she has fallen out of love or anything like that. It has made me question whether or not she still finds me attractive, but she has assured me that she does and that it’s just a mental hang up she’s having. I just want to understand why her interest in sex has plummeted, but her interest in masturbation has remained pretty stable.
Anybody been through something similar that can share some advice? We’ve talked a lot about it, but I was hoping to get some outside perspective.
(For context, I’m a 24 year old straight male and she’s a 22 year old bisexual female)
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r/sex So recently my girlfriend has a had a very low sex drive. I’m always the one that initiates sex, and 75% of the time she says she doesn’t feel like it. She’s stressed at work, which I completely understand can affect your sex drive, but she’s also masturbating two of three times a week to porn. We’ve always been pretty open about that subject. It’s it common to have low sex drive, but still be horny enough to masturbate regularly? We’re in a great place, emotionally. We love each other a lot, so I’m not worried that she has fallen out of love or anything like that. It has made me question whether or not she still finds me attractive, but she has assured me that she does and that it’s just a mental hang up she’s having. I just want to understand why her interest in sex has plummeted, but her interest in masturbation has remained pretty stable. Anybody been through something similar that can share some advice? We’ve talked a lot about it, but I was hoping to get some outside perspective. (For context, I’m a 24 year old straight male and she’s a 22 year old bisexual female) submitted by /u/ThrowAwayXXX2000 [link] [comments]
So recently my girlfriend has a had a very low sex drive. I’m always the one that initiates sex, and 75% of the time she says she doesn’t feel like it. She’s stressed at work, which I completely understand can affect your sex drive, but she’s also masturbating two of three times a week to porn. We’ve always been pretty open about that subject.
It’s it common to have low sex drive, but still be horny enough to masturbate regularly? We’re in a great place, emotionally. We love each other a lot, so I’m not worried that she has fallen out of love or anything like that. It has made me question whether or not she still finds me attractive, but she has assured me that she does and that it’s just a mental hang up she’s having. I just want to understand why her interest in sex has plummeted, but her interest in masturbation has remained pretty stable.
Anybody been through something similar that can share some advice? We’ve talked a lot about it, but I was hoping to get some outside perspective.
(For context, I’m a 24 year old straight male and she’s a 22 year old bisexual female)
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