Some weeks ago my partner (22M) and I (18F) were not having the most fun in the bedroom. I mean, he used to touch me before intercourse (he went down on me only twice, during a 10-month relationship), but afterward he said multiple times he was tired and there was no intercourse at all. I would love to give him pleasure, in any form (I even prefer only oral sex or touching, more then penetration). Sometime after that, I asked if something was wrong, and he said he didn’t get excited touching me for like 10 min, he wasn’t tired as he said. Also, i said i wanted him to be more dominant because i am a little submissive in bed. He didn’t get what i meant because he only tried to fuck me harder (the strokes), his behavior didn’t change at all. I feel we have an awesome relationship, but some sexual details get me thinking about our future. He is a caring man, and he worries about me and my feelings. How can I talk to him about foreplay and maybe more pleasant sex? He is kinda shy on the topic, he also said sex wasn’t so important to him, and this concerns me to be honest. If you have any advice i appreciate it.
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r/sex Some weeks ago my partner (22M) and I (18F) were not having the most fun in the bedroom. I mean, he used to touch me before intercourse (he went down on me only twice, during a 10-month relationship), but afterward he said multiple times he was tired and there was no intercourse at all. I would love to give him pleasure, in any form (I even prefer only oral sex or touching, more then penetration). Sometime after that, I asked if something was wrong, and he said he didn’t get excited touching me for like 10 min, he wasn’t tired as he said. Also, i said i wanted him to be more dominant because i am a little submissive in bed. He didn’t get what i meant because he only tried to fuck me harder (the strokes), his behavior didn’t change at all. I feel we have an awesome relationship, but some sexual details get me thinking about our future. He is a caring man, and he worries about me and my feelings. How can I talk to him about foreplay and maybe more pleasant sex? He is kinda shy on the topic, he also said sex wasn’t so important to him, and this concerns me to be honest. If you have any advice i appreciate it. submitted by /u/stuDying44 [link] [comments]
Some weeks ago my partner (22M) and I (18F) were not having the most fun in the bedroom. I mean, he used to touch me before intercourse (he went down on me only twice, during a 10-month relationship), but afterward he said multiple times he was tired and there was no intercourse at all. I would love to give him pleasure, in any form (I even prefer only oral sex or touching, more then penetration). Sometime after that, I asked if something was wrong, and he said he didn’t get excited touching me for like 10 min, he wasn’t tired as he said. Also, i said i wanted him to be more dominant because i am a little submissive in bed. He didn’t get what i meant because he only tried to fuck me harder (the strokes), his behavior didn’t change at all. I feel we have an awesome relationship, but some sexual details get me thinking about our future. He is a caring man, and he worries about me and my feelings. How can I talk to him about foreplay and maybe more pleasant sex? He is kinda shy on the topic, he also said sex wasn’t so important to him, and this concerns me to be honest. If you have any advice i appreciate it.
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