What’s the deal with the narrative about men always wanting sex and women “allowing” it to happen like it’s a chore? /u/Curious-Nothing6234 Sex

I (F20) see it worded everywhere like that. Saying “if he treats me right maybe he’ll get lucky tonight” or “don’t let him have it unless…” and stuff. Girls is this really how we’re thinking? Am I just super horny? I jump on absolutely any chance I can get to have sex with my boyfriend. I feel like an addict. And apparently everyone else is just of the “if I’m in the mood, he may get to fuck me” mindset. How?

I (F20) see it worded everywhere like that. Saying “if he treats me right maybe he’ll get lucky tonight” or “don’t let him have it unless…” and stuff. Girls is this really how we’re thinking? Am I just super horny? I jump on absolutely any chance I can get to have sex with my boyfriend. I feel like an addict. And apparently everyone else is just of the “if I’m in the mood, he may get to fuck me” mindset. How?