I (29m) and my bf (30m) are sexually active and monogamous. We are both sides so we don’t really get into anal and in general we keep it pretty vanilla in the bedroom otherwise. I do get more into the wild side of things than him.
Recently we’ve experienced an issue where he claims I smell and he has a hard time giving me head or breathing when he’s in the vicinity of my crotch. Immediately if I sense he’s having a problem I am turned off and confused and morbidly embarrassed. I try really hard, I clean well, I keep my junk aired out when i can, but the most confusing thing is that CANNOT SMELL ANYTHING DOWN THERE! I’ve also never had a partner in my entire life tell me I smelled or had a body odor other than good.
I truly try to smell myself if he says I smell. I rub my crotch area with a clean hand and all I smell is skin. Nothing else. I know when my junk is funked, and it’s never when he and I are playing in the bedroom. Do I enjoy man musk? Yes. But I am sure of what that smells like and it’s not skin, it’s like sweaty skin. Idk.
I love this man and want to spend the rest of my life with him. How do we approach this lol? I have not gone to a doctor yet regarding this specifically and getting a 2nd opinion is pretty much out of the question. Ugh. Anyone relate?
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r/sex I (29m) and my bf (30m) are sexually active and monogamous. We are both sides so we don’t really get into anal and in general we keep it pretty vanilla in the bedroom otherwise. I do get more into the wild side of things than him. Recently we’ve experienced an issue where he claims I smell and he has a hard time giving me head or breathing when he’s in the vicinity of my crotch. Immediately if I sense he’s having a problem I am turned off and confused and morbidly embarrassed. I try really hard, I clean well, I keep my junk aired out when i can, but the most confusing thing is that CANNOT SMELL ANYTHING DOWN THERE! I’ve also never had a partner in my entire life tell me I smelled or had a body odor other than good. I truly try to smell myself if he says I smell. I rub my crotch area with a clean hand and all I smell is skin. Nothing else. I know when my junk is funked, and it’s never when he and I are playing in the bedroom. Do I enjoy man musk? Yes. But I am sure of what that smells like and it’s not skin, it’s like sweaty skin. Idk. I love this man and want to spend the rest of my life with him. How do we approach this lol? I have not gone to a doctor yet regarding this specifically and getting a 2nd opinion is pretty much out of the question. Ugh. Anyone relate? submitted by /u/green-pepper-or-bust [link] [comments]
I (29m) and my bf (30m) are sexually active and monogamous. We are both sides so we don’t really get into anal and in general we keep it pretty vanilla in the bedroom otherwise. I do get more into the wild side of things than him.
Recently we’ve experienced an issue where he claims I smell and he has a hard time giving me head or breathing when he’s in the vicinity of my crotch. Immediately if I sense he’s having a problem I am turned off and confused and morbidly embarrassed. I try really hard, I clean well, I keep my junk aired out when i can, but the most confusing thing is that CANNOT SMELL ANYTHING DOWN THERE! I’ve also never had a partner in my entire life tell me I smelled or had a body odor other than good.
I truly try to smell myself if he says I smell. I rub my crotch area with a clean hand and all I smell is skin. Nothing else. I know when my junk is funked, and it’s never when he and I are playing in the bedroom. Do I enjoy man musk? Yes. But I am sure of what that smells like and it’s not skin, it’s like sweaty skin. Idk.
I love this man and want to spend the rest of my life with him. How do we approach this lol? I have not gone to a doctor yet regarding this specifically and getting a 2nd opinion is pretty much out of the question. Ugh. Anyone relate?
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