Title says it all pretty much. My partner has a mental health condition and is incredibly sensitive to any perceived rejection. Their sex drive is higher than mine, probably because they’re 1. Male and 2. Were “exposed to sexual content way too young” (these are their words, not mine). Any time I say I’m not in the mood to have sex when they are, there’s a good chance they will curl up in a ball, act pissy, possibly hit themselves, and be nonverbal. Me explaining I’m not in the mood isn’t good enough. They’ll do that for a bit, then yell at me if I try to ask what’s wrong. I’m exhausted. I think it’s because they feel sex is one of the only things they’re “good” at (which I know isn’t true, they’re very talented), so if I reject them wanting to have sex, they take it as me rejecting all of them. I just don’t know how to approach this conversation anymore, I’m tired of being yelled at or told I need to do something different when I do everything else.
Also. I don’t know if they found this Reddit account. If they did, hey babe. I don’t know what to do anymore, and the Internet is the only place I can go to ask anything like this. I only do this because I love you.
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r/sex Title says it all pretty much. My partner has a mental health condition and is incredibly sensitive to any perceived rejection. Their sex drive is higher than mine, probably because they’re 1. Male and 2. Were “exposed to sexual content way too young” (these are their words, not mine). Any time I say I’m not in the mood to have sex when they are, there’s a good chance they will curl up in a ball, act pissy, possibly hit themselves, and be nonverbal. Me explaining I’m not in the mood isn’t good enough. They’ll do that for a bit, then yell at me if I try to ask what’s wrong. I’m exhausted. I think it’s because they feel sex is one of the only things they’re “good” at (which I know isn’t true, they’re very talented), so if I reject them wanting to have sex, they take it as me rejecting all of them. I just don’t know how to approach this conversation anymore, I’m tired of being yelled at or told I need to do something different when I do everything else. Also. I don’t know if they found this Reddit account. If they did, hey babe. I don’t know what to do anymore, and the Internet is the only place I can go to ask anything like this. I only do this because I love you. submitted by /u/MikaMushhh [link] [comments]
Title says it all pretty much. My partner has a mental health condition and is incredibly sensitive to any perceived rejection. Their sex drive is higher than mine, probably because they’re 1. Male and 2. Were “exposed to sexual content way too young” (these are their words, not mine). Any time I say I’m not in the mood to have sex when they are, there’s a good chance they will curl up in a ball, act pissy, possibly hit themselves, and be nonverbal. Me explaining I’m not in the mood isn’t good enough. They’ll do that for a bit, then yell at me if I try to ask what’s wrong. I’m exhausted. I think it’s because they feel sex is one of the only things they’re “good” at (which I know isn’t true, they’re very talented), so if I reject them wanting to have sex, they take it as me rejecting all of them. I just don’t know how to approach this conversation anymore, I’m tired of being yelled at or told I need to do something different when I do everything else.
Also. I don’t know if they found this Reddit account. If they did, hey babe. I don’t know what to do anymore, and the Internet is the only place I can go to ask anything like this. I only do this because I love you.
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