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Couple years ago, I ( 21F) was SA and as a result, my sex drive is really low. It takes me a lot to get in the mood and actually want to have sex. When my boyfriend ( 26M ) and I started dating, and we started getting more intimate and having sex, it’s one of the first things I told him because I know that he has a really high sex drive. He told me that he was fine with that and that he didn’t need to have sex to be happy in a relationship.
Couple days ago, I randomly got in the mood and I was waiting for him to get back home from work so we could go take a shower together and do what we had to do. But when he got back home, he sat down like he usually does which is fine, but everytime I asked him to come take a shower, he would always say ” in 10 min “, and those 10 minutes turned into almost 3 hours. It was getting hard for me to stay in the mood so when we finally went in the shower, I started kissing his neck ans being all touchy so he knows that I’m in the mood and he told me ” no stop ” so I stopped, but I also stopped being in the mood. I didn’t mind stopping at all, I mean, he worked all day, I knew he was tired and all that. We went in the shower, got out like an hour later, then we went to bed. Like half an hour after we went to bed, he started just randomly taking my clothes off, and everything was going so fast I didn’t had time to react or tell him that I didn’t want to. I got on top of him and started giving him a hand job, which I enjoy giving even when I’m not in the mood for sex. Because what I want, is for him to feel good. I let him touch me wherever he wanted to touch Once he finished, he asked me what was wrong and I told him that there was nothing wrong, that I just wasn’t in the mood anymore. That’s when he started getting mad at me saying that I shouldn’t make him think that I’m in the mood if I’m not, and that giving him a hand job even if I’m not in the mood is a selfish thing to do. He told me that he didn’t understood how I can tell him that some stuff turns me on when it doesn’t ( I told him the stuff that turns me on but I also told him that it might not work everytime ). He’s still mad at me, days later.
He told me that he wasn’t going to try to have sex with me unless I start it first ( he knows I don’t like initiating sex ), that he would do anything even if I tried to turn him on and stuff like that
I don’t know what to do. It’s making me feel bad because my sex drive is not something I can control. I feel like I should’ve just let him fuck me so we wouldn’t have went through all that shit
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r/sex Throwaway account Couple years ago, I ( 21F) was SA and as a result, my sex drive is really low. It takes me a lot to get in the mood and actually want to have sex. When my boyfriend ( 26M ) and I started dating, and we started getting more intimate and having sex, it’s one of the first things I told him because I know that he has a really high sex drive. He told me that he was fine with that and that he didn’t need to have sex to be happy in a relationship. Couple days ago, I randomly got in the mood and I was waiting for him to get back home from work so we could go take a shower together and do what we had to do. But when he got back home, he sat down like he usually does which is fine, but everytime I asked him to come take a shower, he would always say ” in 10 min “, and those 10 minutes turned into almost 3 hours. It was getting hard for me to stay in the mood so when we finally went in the shower, I started kissing his neck ans being all touchy so he knows that I’m in the mood and he told me ” no stop ” so I stopped, but I also stopped being in the mood. I didn’t mind stopping at all, I mean, he worked all day, I knew he was tired and all that. We went in the shower, got out like an hour later, then we went to bed. Like half an hour after we went to bed, he started just randomly taking my clothes off, and everything was going so fast I didn’t had time to react or tell him that I didn’t want to. I got on top of him and started giving him a hand job, which I enjoy giving even when I’m not in the mood for sex. Because what I want, is for him to feel good. I let him touch me wherever he wanted to touch Once he finished, he asked me what was wrong and I told him that there was nothing wrong, that I just wasn’t in the mood anymore. That’s when he started getting mad at me saying that I shouldn’t make him think that I’m in the mood if I’m not, and that giving him a hand job even if I’m not in the mood is a selfish thing to do. He told me that he didn’t understood how I can tell him that some stuff turns me on when it doesn’t ( I told him the stuff that turns me on but I also told him that it might not work everytime ). He’s still mad at me, days later. He told me that he wasn’t going to try to have sex with me unless I start it first ( he knows I don’t like initiating sex ), that he would do anything even if I tried to turn him on and stuff like that I don’t know what to do. It’s making me feel bad because my sex drive is not something I can control. I feel like I should’ve just let him fuck me so we wouldn’t have went through all that shit submitted by /u/Zealousideal_Cap8196 [link] [comments]
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Couple years ago, I ( 21F) was SA and as a result, my sex drive is really low. It takes me a lot to get in the mood and actually want to have sex. When my boyfriend ( 26M ) and I started dating, and we started getting more intimate and having sex, it’s one of the first things I told him because I know that he has a really high sex drive. He told me that he was fine with that and that he didn’t need to have sex to be happy in a relationship.
Couple days ago, I randomly got in the mood and I was waiting for him to get back home from work so we could go take a shower together and do what we had to do. But when he got back home, he sat down like he usually does which is fine, but everytime I asked him to come take a shower, he would always say ” in 10 min “, and those 10 minutes turned into almost 3 hours. It was getting hard for me to stay in the mood so when we finally went in the shower, I started kissing his neck ans being all touchy so he knows that I’m in the mood and he told me ” no stop ” so I stopped, but I also stopped being in the mood. I didn’t mind stopping at all, I mean, he worked all day, I knew he was tired and all that. We went in the shower, got out like an hour later, then we went to bed. Like half an hour after we went to bed, he started just randomly taking my clothes off, and everything was going so fast I didn’t had time to react or tell him that I didn’t want to. I got on top of him and started giving him a hand job, which I enjoy giving even when I’m not in the mood for sex. Because what I want, is for him to feel good. I let him touch me wherever he wanted to touch Once he finished, he asked me what was wrong and I told him that there was nothing wrong, that I just wasn’t in the mood anymore. That’s when he started getting mad at me saying that I shouldn’t make him think that I’m in the mood if I’m not, and that giving him a hand job even if I’m not in the mood is a selfish thing to do. He told me that he didn’t understood how I can tell him that some stuff turns me on when it doesn’t ( I told him the stuff that turns me on but I also told him that it might not work everytime ). He’s still mad at me, days later.
He told me that he wasn’t going to try to have sex with me unless I start it first ( he knows I don’t like initiating sex ), that he would do anything even if I tried to turn him on and stuff like that
I don’t know what to do. It’s making me feel bad because my sex drive is not something I can control. I feel like I should’ve just let him fuck me so we wouldn’t have went through all that shit
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