I’ve only recently started having sex with my boyfriend (or in general) and for a while I thought i was asexual because I was completely uninterested in sex, now I’ve realized I must be demisexual, my current boyfriend is my first real boyfriend and the only person I’ve honestly ever been sexually attracted to. But due to my past lack of interest in sex and lack of proper sex education, I honestly don’t really know what to do. My boyfriend has mentioned wanting me to give him a blowjob or handjob and I’m not sure how or if I even could? Handjob, yeah, sure, I definitely would want to eventually, I’m just not quite comfortable with that yet, but the idea of oral sex sounds really uncomfortable to me. There’s been certain other things I used to think sounded uncomfortable but I now really like in my relationship, (such as sex in general!) but the idea of actually having a dick in my mouth makes me sick to my stomach, even if it’s his. He hasn’t done oral with me either and I don’t really mind, I just feel kind of guilty and I feel like I’m not fullfilling him enough, I don’t know if a blowjob is something he’d think is necessary for him.
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r/sex I’ve only recently started having sex with my boyfriend (or in general) and for a while I thought i was asexual because I was completely uninterested in sex, now I’ve realized I must be demisexual, my current boyfriend is my first real boyfriend and the only person I’ve honestly ever been sexually attracted to. But due to my past lack of interest in sex and lack of proper sex education, I honestly don’t really know what to do. My boyfriend has mentioned wanting me to give him a blowjob or handjob and I’m not sure how or if I even could? Handjob, yeah, sure, I definitely would want to eventually, I’m just not quite comfortable with that yet, but the idea of oral sex sounds really uncomfortable to me. There’s been certain other things I used to think sounded uncomfortable but I now really like in my relationship, (such as sex in general!) but the idea of actually having a dick in my mouth makes me sick to my stomach, even if it’s his. He hasn’t done oral with me either and I don’t really mind, I just feel kind of guilty and I feel like I’m not fullfilling him enough, I don’t know if a blowjob is something he’d think is necessary for him. submitted by /u/unregulated-0 [link] [comments]
I’ve only recently started having sex with my boyfriend (or in general) and for a while I thought i was asexual because I was completely uninterested in sex, now I’ve realized I must be demisexual, my current boyfriend is my first real boyfriend and the only person I’ve honestly ever been sexually attracted to. But due to my past lack of interest in sex and lack of proper sex education, I honestly don’t really know what to do. My boyfriend has mentioned wanting me to give him a blowjob or handjob and I’m not sure how or if I even could? Handjob, yeah, sure, I definitely would want to eventually, I’m just not quite comfortable with that yet, but the idea of oral sex sounds really uncomfortable to me. There’s been certain other things I used to think sounded uncomfortable but I now really like in my relationship, (such as sex in general!) but the idea of actually having a dick in my mouth makes me sick to my stomach, even if it’s his. He hasn’t done oral with me either and I don’t really mind, I just feel kind of guilty and I feel like I’m not fullfilling him enough, I don’t know if a blowjob is something he’d think is necessary for him.
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