Throwaway account for obvious reasons…
My girlfriend and I have been dating for around 2 years now and we are both new to sex. We took each other’s virginity and have been having sex for about 5-6 months now. However, we are having some issues making sure we both enjoy it. I was finishing admittedly too quickly when we first started, but I have improved somewhat. Yet, I still cant figure out how to return the favor. It is becoming somewhat of a chore and I end up having to lie to her if I have finished yet or not because she doesn’t get close or feel very good at all most of the time. She is becoming increasingly frustrated that she rarely finishes/enjoys sex despite my best efforts. I have tried different positions, long foreplay time, and oral and I still can’t figure out how to help her enjoy it more.
Specifically with me giving her oral sex, she doesn’t seem to feel anything at all when I try it despite implementing various methods I have googled. I would like to just say I am just not very good at it but my worry stems from the fact that I cant get her to feel anything at all when I give her oral sex. It bothers me because I know most women love it but I cannot figure out how to make her not only love it but feel anything at all from oral.
For reference we do use condoms, lube, and she is on BC (if it matters).
Does anyone have any advice they could give me to help with this issue? This is more or less a last resort for me because I am otherwise extremely embarrassed to ask anyone other than google and now anonymously on reddit on how to solve it…
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r/sex Throwaway account for obvious reasons… My girlfriend and I have been dating for around 2 years now and we are both new to sex. We took each other’s virginity and have been having sex for about 5-6 months now. However, we are having some issues making sure we both enjoy it. I was finishing admittedly too quickly when we first started, but I have improved somewhat. Yet, I still cant figure out how to return the favor. It is becoming somewhat of a chore and I end up having to lie to her if I have finished yet or not because she doesn’t get close or feel very good at all most of the time. She is becoming increasingly frustrated that she rarely finishes/enjoys sex despite my best efforts. I have tried different positions, long foreplay time, and oral and I still can’t figure out how to help her enjoy it more. Specifically with me giving her oral sex, she doesn’t seem to feel anything at all when I try it despite implementing various methods I have googled. I would like to just say I am just not very good at it but my worry stems from the fact that I cant get her to feel anything at all when I give her oral sex. It bothers me because I know most women love it but I cannot figure out how to make her not only love it but feel anything at all from oral. For reference we do use condoms, lube, and she is on BC (if it matters). Does anyone have any advice they could give me to help with this issue? This is more or less a last resort for me because I am otherwise extremely embarrassed to ask anyone other than google and now anonymously on reddit on how to solve it… submitted by /u/Short_Percentage9090 [link] [comments]
Throwaway account for obvious reasons…
My girlfriend and I have been dating for around 2 years now and we are both new to sex. We took each other’s virginity and have been having sex for about 5-6 months now. However, we are having some issues making sure we both enjoy it. I was finishing admittedly too quickly when we first started, but I have improved somewhat. Yet, I still cant figure out how to return the favor. It is becoming somewhat of a chore and I end up having to lie to her if I have finished yet or not because she doesn’t get close or feel very good at all most of the time. She is becoming increasingly frustrated that she rarely finishes/enjoys sex despite my best efforts. I have tried different positions, long foreplay time, and oral and I still can’t figure out how to help her enjoy it more.
Specifically with me giving her oral sex, she doesn’t seem to feel anything at all when I try it despite implementing various methods I have googled. I would like to just say I am just not very good at it but my worry stems from the fact that I cant get her to feel anything at all when I give her oral sex. It bothers me because I know most women love it but I cannot figure out how to make her not only love it but feel anything at all from oral.
For reference we do use condoms, lube, and she is on BC (if it matters).
Does anyone have any advice they could give me to help with this issue? This is more or less a last resort for me because I am otherwise extremely embarrassed to ask anyone other than google and now anonymously on reddit on how to solve it…
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