My (35m) wife (34f) and I have been together for 17yrs. Early on I was gone for work and as such, we were left with masturbating during our time apart. My wife has always had a high libido and before we married, if she wanted an orgasm she go fuck. She never had a need to masterbate. So, when we married she got her first sex toy, the Hitachi Wand. It’s amazing, it induces some amazing O’s, but after this much time, she’s grown rather dependent.
We want to try to move away from vibrators for a bit to let her reset and learn how to achieve an orgasm without one. She can orgasm with sex, but it’s very diffcult and has often ended with or used in conjunction, the wand.
Short of her not orgasming for who knows how long for a reset, are there suggestions? Has anyone else encountered this and overcome it without denial or consistent manual masterbation failures for days/weeks on end?
TLDR: wife has used the Magic Wand for 17yrs and struggles to O without it. Looking for advice.
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r/sex My (35m) wife (34f) and I have been together for 17yrs. Early on I was gone for work and as such, we were left with masturbating during our time apart. My wife has always had a high libido and before we married, if she wanted an orgasm she go fuck. She never had a need to masterbate. So, when we married she got her first sex toy, the Hitachi Wand. It’s amazing, it induces some amazing O’s, but after this much time, she’s grown rather dependent. We want to try to move away from vibrators for a bit to let her reset and learn how to achieve an orgasm without one. She can orgasm with sex, but it’s very diffcult and has often ended with or used in conjunction, the wand. Short of her not orgasming for who knows how long for a reset, are there suggestions? Has anyone else encountered this and overcome it without denial or consistent manual masterbation failures for days/weeks on end? TLDR: wife has used the Magic Wand for 17yrs and struggles to O without it. Looking for advice. submitted by /u/Spirited_Peen [link] [comments]
My (35m) wife (34f) and I have been together for 17yrs. Early on I was gone for work and as such, we were left with masturbating during our time apart. My wife has always had a high libido and before we married, if she wanted an orgasm she go fuck. She never had a need to masterbate. So, when we married she got her first sex toy, the Hitachi Wand. It’s amazing, it induces some amazing O’s, but after this much time, she’s grown rather dependent.
We want to try to move away from vibrators for a bit to let her reset and learn how to achieve an orgasm without one. She can orgasm with sex, but it’s very diffcult and has often ended with or used in conjunction, the wand.
Short of her not orgasming for who knows how long for a reset, are there suggestions? Has anyone else encountered this and overcome it without denial or consistent manual masterbation failures for days/weeks on end?
TLDR: wife has used the Magic Wand for 17yrs and struggles to O without it. Looking for advice.
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