It is drunk behavior? Or it was a r…? Should I said something to him or…? /u/Unusual_Quiet_8095 Sex

I am talking to this man. We know each other for around 5 years. He always asked me out for 5 years and I always said no, but we always talk on/off. Never had sex before… until… last week.

STORY TIME:

We didn’t talk for months, but I was still thinking about him. We get along very well. I decided mid-december 2022 to talk to him. We went on a date, etc. No sex for a month & half. Just dates, laughings, text, etc.

Last week he was very distance, he told me, he is going thru something. I understood & I give him space.

He texted me drunk last weekend. He was more vulgar & rude. He said he wants to see me. I was down to go out. Fast forward… he took a room and we spend the night together (we were far from our houses that’s why). We had sex it was good for our first time… BUT…

Towards the end he started saying: ‘You are my b|tch.’ ‘My dick is yours’. ‘You are a b|tch’. ‘You are so perfect’. ‘That’s my pussy’… Honestly? IT TURNED ME OFF. I am glad I cummed before all that, but not him.

So, he finished in doggy VERY rough AND to my suprise he put his foot on my head (I hope you understand the position I was in). I removed it asap and he cummed.

And he felt asleep in 3 seconds. When we woke up & wanted morning sex I said no. We left the place.

I didn’t process all of this until I went home. Mind you it happened last weekend. And it’s only now I am feeling very bad about it…

He didn’t text/call me since then. I removed him from my contacts.

I would like to know it is something to share w/ him? Because at the moment I won’t talk to him because of how the sex finish. It is consider as rape? Or just bad judgement…? Or drunk behavior…?

I would like to get a diff perspective. I am feeling resentment towards him.

Thanks for reading🫶

I am talking to this man. We know each other for around 5 years. He always asked me out for 5 years and I always said no, but we always talk on/off. Never had sex before… until… last week.

STORY TIME:

We didn’t talk for months, but I was still thinking about him. We get along very well. I decided mid-december 2022 to talk to him. We went on a date, etc. No sex for a month & half. Just dates, laughings, text, etc.

Last week he was very distance, he told me, he is going thru something. I understood & I give him space.

He texted me drunk last weekend. He was more vulgar & rude. He said he wants to see me. I was down to go out. Fast forward… he took a room and we spend the night together (we were far from our houses that’s why). We had sex it was good for our first time… BUT…

Towards the end he started saying: ‘You are my b|tch.’ ‘My dick is yours’. ‘You are a b|tch’. ‘You are so perfect’. ‘That’s my pussy’… Honestly? IT TURNED ME OFF. I am glad I cummed before all that, but not him.

So, he finished in doggy VERY rough AND to my suprise he put his foot on my head (I hope you understand the position I was in). I removed it asap and he cummed.

And he felt asleep in 3 seconds. When we woke up & wanted morning sex I said no. We left the place.

I didn’t process all of this until I went home. Mind you it happened last weekend. And it’s only now I am feeling very bad about it…

He didn’t text/call me since then. I removed him from my contacts.

I would like to know it is something to share w/ him? Because at the moment I won’t talk to him because of how the sex finish. It is consider as rape? Or just bad judgement…? Or drunk behavior…?

I would like to get a diff perspective. I am feeling resentment towards him.

Thanks for reading🫶