This has been playing on my mind for a while but me and my gf of 3 and a half years have been very up and down. A few times she has said when we’re drinking and in an argument, I have a small cock the sex is crap and she’s into women not me . The next day she begged for forgiveness saying she didn’t mean it and it was only to hurt me in the moment. So I gave her another chance and things have been good and although I forgave her it still spins in my head. Sometimes I get anxious when having sex, most of the time I just fuck through it but yesterday I lost an erection. I told her how I felt and that what she said sometimes plays on my mind still and she said OK but you will end up pushing me away!
We’re not speaking at the moment and I keep thinking I’ll be better off with someone who respects me, and yes I forgave her but why does it still affect me? We’ve been together all this time so why do I get anxious still? Every day I always think how I can be better at sex, last longer etc I don’t feel relaxed like I used to. Am I being petty to keep bringing the past up?
Also another thing that bothers me is I thought sex was meant to get better? 2 years ago we used to do anal, all different positions and dirty texting now it’s nothing like the first 6 months of being together. I’ve bought toys and a whip to spice things up and it still doesn’t feel exciting like it was. Am I expecting to much? She says we have a good sex life and she’s happy but I don’t believe her if I’m honest.
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r/sex This has been playing on my mind for a while but me and my gf of 3 and a half years have been very up and down. A few times she has said when we’re drinking and in an argument, I have a small cock the sex is crap and she’s into women not me . The next day she begged for forgiveness saying she didn’t mean it and it was only to hurt me in the moment. So I gave her another chance and things have been good and although I forgave her it still spins in my head. Sometimes I get anxious when having sex, most of the time I just fuck through it but yesterday I lost an erection. I told her how I felt and that what she said sometimes plays on my mind still and she said OK but you will end up pushing me away! We’re not speaking at the moment and I keep thinking I’ll be better off with someone who respects me, and yes I forgave her but why does it still affect me? We’ve been together all this time so why do I get anxious still? Every day I always think how I can be better at sex, last longer etc I don’t feel relaxed like I used to. Am I being petty to keep bringing the past up? Also another thing that bothers me is I thought sex was meant to get better? 2 years ago we used to do anal, all different positions and dirty texting now it’s nothing like the first 6 months of being together. I’ve bought toys and a whip to spice things up and it still doesn’t feel exciting like it was. Am I expecting to much? She says we have a good sex life and she’s happy but I don’t believe her if I’m honest. submitted by /u/djnibz08 [link] [comments]
This has been playing on my mind for a while but me and my gf of 3 and a half years have been very up and down. A few times she has said when we’re drinking and in an argument, I have a small cock the sex is crap and she’s into women not me . The next day she begged for forgiveness saying she didn’t mean it and it was only to hurt me in the moment. So I gave her another chance and things have been good and although I forgave her it still spins in my head. Sometimes I get anxious when having sex, most of the time I just fuck through it but yesterday I lost an erection. I told her how I felt and that what she said sometimes plays on my mind still and she said OK but you will end up pushing me away!
We’re not speaking at the moment and I keep thinking I’ll be better off with someone who respects me, and yes I forgave her but why does it still affect me? We’ve been together all this time so why do I get anxious still? Every day I always think how I can be better at sex, last longer etc I don’t feel relaxed like I used to. Am I being petty to keep bringing the past up?
Also another thing that bothers me is I thought sex was meant to get better? 2 years ago we used to do anal, all different positions and dirty texting now it’s nothing like the first 6 months of being together. I’ve bought toys and a whip to spice things up and it still doesn’t feel exciting like it was. Am I expecting to much? She says we have a good sex life and she’s happy but I don’t believe her if I’m honest.
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