Im a (m 19) and my girlfriend (f 19) never shows me that she wants me whenever we have sex it’s because I initiate it and I make her feel special by getting her in the mood and making her feel wanted, but never have I ever gotten that done for me. When we first started dating it took 3-4 months of me giving her regular oral until we finally had sex for the first time. I want an relationship where I can feel like I can say anything to her like do you wanna have sex later? And it not feel weird, but I can’t have that because she would never ask me, so it would be one sided again. I just don’t know what to do I have talked to her multiple times about me feeling unwanted and that I want her to be more intimate with me, right now I’m trying to let her come to me by not initiating anything but it hasn’t worked and we haven’t had sex in a month and I’m feeling super sad about it because I don’t know if it will ever change and it means I have to spend the rest of my relationship with her feeling like this regularly. I think to myself that I’m being unreasonable and that I can’t expect sex or anything but I guess I thought it would be different especially because we’re young and I’m horny all the fucking time and I constantly have dreams and fantasies of her initiating something which I think is crazy because I’m fantasizing about something so normal and simple like touching me and saying to take off my cloths and have sex with me.
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r/sex Im a (m 19) and my girlfriend (f 19) never shows me that she wants me whenever we have sex it’s because I initiate it and I make her feel special by getting her in the mood and making her feel wanted, but never have I ever gotten that done for me. When we first started dating it took 3-4 months of me giving her regular oral until we finally had sex for the first time. I want an relationship where I can feel like I can say anything to her like do you wanna have sex later? And it not feel weird, but I can’t have that because she would never ask me, so it would be one sided again. I just don’t know what to do I have talked to her multiple times about me feeling unwanted and that I want her to be more intimate with me, right now I’m trying to let her come to me by not initiating anything but it hasn’t worked and we haven’t had sex in a month and I’m feeling super sad about it because I don’t know if it will ever change and it means I have to spend the rest of my relationship with her feeling like this regularly. I think to myself that I’m being unreasonable and that I can’t expect sex or anything but I guess I thought it would be different especially because we’re young and I’m horny all the fucking time and I constantly have dreams and fantasies of her initiating something which I think is crazy because I’m fantasizing about something so normal and simple like touching me and saying to take off my cloths and have sex with me. submitted by /u/Forward-Ad-3994 [link] [comments]
Im a (m 19) and my girlfriend (f 19) never shows me that she wants me whenever we have sex it’s because I initiate it and I make her feel special by getting her in the mood and making her feel wanted, but never have I ever gotten that done for me. When we first started dating it took 3-4 months of me giving her regular oral until we finally had sex for the first time. I want an relationship where I can feel like I can say anything to her like do you wanna have sex later? And it not feel weird, but I can’t have that because she would never ask me, so it would be one sided again. I just don’t know what to do I have talked to her multiple times about me feeling unwanted and that I want her to be more intimate with me, right now I’m trying to let her come to me by not initiating anything but it hasn’t worked and we haven’t had sex in a month and I’m feeling super sad about it because I don’t know if it will ever change and it means I have to spend the rest of my relationship with her feeling like this regularly. I think to myself that I’m being unreasonable and that I can’t expect sex or anything but I guess I thought it would be different especially because we’re young and I’m horny all the fucking time and I constantly have dreams and fantasies of her initiating something which I think is crazy because I’m fantasizing about something so normal and simple like touching me and saying to take off my cloths and have sex with me.
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