How do you initiate sex with someone who always says no? /u/fuckmylifeihateyou Sex

No in my case seems to mean forever. Not, “no today” or “no I don’t want to right now.”

I am in a dead bedroom.

My husband does not have erectile dysfunction, low testosterone, nor is he asexual or gay (that I know of). He has no issues getting hard or jerking off to porn by himself but anything with me he has zero interest.

I can’t just take off his clothes and start molesting him. He will tell me to stop even if I start eyeing his dick through his clothes. No sexy shower time either. Everything is just “no.” I can’t seduce the man. He’ll just tell me to stop or “no.” No. No. NO!

So what advice do you have for being with someone who just has no desire to be sexual with their partner?

No in my case seems to mean forever. Not, “no today” or “no I don’t want to right now.”

I am in a dead bedroom.

My husband does not have erectile dysfunction, low testosterone, nor is he asexual or gay (that I know of). He has no issues getting hard or jerking off to porn by himself but anything with me he has zero interest.

I can’t just take off his clothes and start molesting him. He will tell me to stop even if I start eyeing his dick through his clothes. No sexy shower time either. Everything is just “no.” I can’t seduce the man. He’ll just tell me to stop or “no.” No. No. NO!

So what advice do you have for being with someone who just has no desire to be sexual with their partner?