How can I dress to feel more confident? /u/need2Bconfident Sex

I am new to experimenting with sex, 29 still a virgin. I was fat my whole life, and told myself fat women didn’t deserve to be sexy and couldn’t be. Lots of thoughts went into that.

I took control of my life and have been losing weight at a very slow pace, so I’m still obese.

I recently made a fwb who calls me sexy however he’s never seen me naked, I’ll only expose certain parts of me naked (I will remove my boobs from the top of my shirt because I hate my stomach and have rolls, even under my boobs I have under boobs. I won’t remove my underwear but push it to the side so he can access my vagina.

But I want to start dressing a bit sexier despite it, in the bedroom

I looked for lingerie but it doesn’t look like it would flatter me, in fact even the bigger sizes just look like they’re made for skinny women and accentuates their features but that’s it.

So any bigger women here, what can I wear to hide my insecurities but still feel sexy?

Please no comments on losing weight – not the purpose of this post and I’m seeing a doctor who is helping me with this so don’t need advice on how to lose weight

Thanks

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r/sex I am new to experimenting with sex, 29 still a virgin. I was fat my whole life, and told myself fat women didn’t deserve to be sexy and couldn’t be. Lots of thoughts went into that. I took control of my life and have been losing weight at a very slow pace, so I’m still obese. I recently made a fwb who calls me sexy however he’s never seen me naked, I’ll only expose certain parts of me naked (I will remove my boobs from the top of my shirt because I hate my stomach and have rolls, even under my boobs I have under boobs. I won’t remove my underwear but push it to the side so he can access my vagina. But I want to start dressing a bit sexier despite it, in the bedroom I looked for lingerie but it doesn’t look like it would flatter me, in fact even the bigger sizes just look like they’re made for skinny women and accentuates their features but that’s it. So any bigger women here, what can I wear to hide my insecurities but still feel sexy? Please no comments on losing weight – not the purpose of this post and I’m seeing a doctor who is helping me with this so don’t need advice on how to lose weight Thanks submitted by /u/need2Bconfident [link] [comments]