I am divorced and hadn’t had any intimate or sexual contact with a woman in about 15 years. I am finally seeing someone now (I won’t list our ages, but we’re both adults).
My new girlfriend and I love each other, and we waited about a month before we started the sexual part of our relationship. One reason was because of me.
I knew that she was on the rough side when it came to foreplay and sex, but now that we’re exploring our intimacy together, I’m finding out that her rough, aggressive foreplay and sex is scaring me a bit (a lot?). I know some people would say that this is a good problem to have, but I’m constantly worried that I won’t be able to totally satisfy her. Worst of all, I fear that I may end up frustrating her in the long run. It’s my nature to be gentle and soft.
Also, I take medication that helps me maintain an erection, but I have trouble ejaculating. My girlfriend immediately jumped to conclusions about her “not being able to make me cum” which isn’t that at all.
Anyway, I could really use everyone’s advice, feedback, etc. Thank you.
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r/sex I am divorced and hadn’t had any intimate or sexual contact with a woman in about 15 years. I am finally seeing someone now (I won’t list our ages, but we’re both adults). My new girlfriend and I love each other, and we waited about a month before we started the sexual part of our relationship. One reason was because of me. I knew that she was on the rough side when it came to foreplay and sex, but now that we’re exploring our intimacy together, I’m finding out that her rough, aggressive foreplay and sex is scaring me a bit (a lot?). I know some people would say that this is a good problem to have, but I’m constantly worried that I won’t be able to totally satisfy her. Worst of all, I fear that I may end up frustrating her in the long run. It’s my nature to be gentle and soft. Also, I take medication that helps me maintain an erection, but I have trouble ejaculating. My girlfriend immediately jumped to conclusions about her “not being able to make me cum” which isn’t that at all. Anyway, I could really use everyone’s advice, feedback, etc. Thank you. submitted by /u/Schumer_13th [link] [comments]
I am divorced and hadn’t had any intimate or sexual contact with a woman in about 15 years. I am finally seeing someone now (I won’t list our ages, but we’re both adults).
My new girlfriend and I love each other, and we waited about a month before we started the sexual part of our relationship. One reason was because of me.
I knew that she was on the rough side when it came to foreplay and sex, but now that we’re exploring our intimacy together, I’m finding out that her rough, aggressive foreplay and sex is scaring me a bit (a lot?). I know some people would say that this is a good problem to have, but I’m constantly worried that I won’t be able to totally satisfy her. Worst of all, I fear that I may end up frustrating her in the long run. It’s my nature to be gentle and soft.
Also, I take medication that helps me maintain an erection, but I have trouble ejaculating. My girlfriend immediately jumped to conclusions about her “not being able to make me cum” which isn’t that at all.
Anyway, I could really use everyone’s advice, feedback, etc. Thank you.
submitted by /u/Schumer_13th
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