when i (f21) have sex with my boyfriend (m20) i try so hard to have my eyes open and make eye contact but it is so incredibly difficult because my body and brain just want to keep shutting my eyes. i feel bad because i know it makes him feel insecure and that it makes him think i don’t want to look at him and i’ve expressed that it is very much not the case. i’ve told him about how it’s just my own insecurity and how i am not comfortable being perceived during sex and that it’s just hard for me to keep my eyes open because i start to get nervous and freak out if they’re open for too long. he is very understanding and has never been upset about it, but i want to work on being able to make eye contact and feel confident without constantly feeling the need to close my eyes because i know it will make sex better for the both of us. if anyone has any tips or advice i would love to hear it!
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r/sex when i (f21) have sex with my boyfriend (m20) i try so hard to have my eyes open and make eye contact but it is so incredibly difficult because my body and brain just want to keep shutting my eyes. i feel bad because i know it makes him feel insecure and that it makes him think i don’t want to look at him and i’ve expressed that it is very much not the case. i’ve told him about how it’s just my own insecurity and how i am not comfortable being perceived during sex and that it’s just hard for me to keep my eyes open because i start to get nervous and freak out if they’re open for too long. he is very understanding and has never been upset about it, but i want to work on being able to make eye contact and feel confident without constantly feeling the need to close my eyes because i know it will make sex better for the both of us. if anyone has any tips or advice i would love to hear it! submitted by /u/ball_biter [link] [comments]
when i (f21) have sex with my boyfriend (m20) i try so hard to have my eyes open and make eye contact but it is so incredibly difficult because my body and brain just want to keep shutting my eyes. i feel bad because i know it makes him feel insecure and that it makes him think i don’t want to look at him and i’ve expressed that it is very much not the case. i’ve told him about how it’s just my own insecurity and how i am not comfortable being perceived during sex and that it’s just hard for me to keep my eyes open because i start to get nervous and freak out if they’re open for too long. he is very understanding and has never been upset about it, but i want to work on being able to make eye contact and feel confident without constantly feeling the need to close my eyes because i know it will make sex better for the both of us. if anyone has any tips or advice i would love to hear it!
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