Hi there, I (24f) have lived with my partner (23m) for about a year now, although we’ve dated for 4 years. We’re very in love. Basically, I’ve been a pillow princess for the bulk of this time. There’s been no complaints and the sex has always been pretty good. Not amazing, like. Consistent missionary and he finishes soon enough. Kinda boring but it gets the job done (for him). I’ve never prioritized my own orgasm.
But guys…. stop just letting your man do what he wants to you. I used to justify my lack of effort as a result of not being pleasured enough. Just tell him you need longer foreplay (even just 5 minutes of cuddling) and it’d actually be incentive to be on top for once. I’m totally projecting, but I’m having the best sex ever now. And I’m on top! It’s so simple! Also, the bed SUCKS for riding. Use the floor,, it offers way more support and isn’t like a massive workout. Being on top is SO easy now and I get way more out of sex now.
I just needed to share this because holy shit!!! My libido is so spiked right now. It’s all I can think about and I had to share because I really just became resigned to how vanilla we are. But girl……… oh my god just tell him what you need so you can blow his mind.
Yeah anyways thanks for reading !!!
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r/sex Hi there, I (24f) have lived with my partner (23m) for about a year now, although we’ve dated for 4 years. We’re very in love. Basically, I’ve been a pillow princess for the bulk of this time. There’s been no complaints and the sex has always been pretty good. Not amazing, like. Consistent missionary and he finishes soon enough. Kinda boring but it gets the job done (for him). I’ve never prioritized my own orgasm. But guys…. stop just letting your man do what he wants to you. I used to justify my lack of effort as a result of not being pleasured enough. Just tell him you need longer foreplay (even just 5 minutes of cuddling) and it’d actually be incentive to be on top for once. I’m totally projecting, but I’m having the best sex ever now. And I’m on top! It’s so simple! Also, the bed SUCKS for riding. Use the floor,, it offers way more support and isn’t like a massive workout. Being on top is SO easy now and I get way more out of sex now. I just needed to share this because holy shit!!! My libido is so spiked right now. It’s all I can think about and I had to share because I really just became resigned to how vanilla we are. But girl……… oh my god just tell him what you need so you can blow his mind. Yeah anyways thanks for reading !!! submitted by /u/hitheranon123 [link] [comments]
Hi there, I (24f) have lived with my partner (23m) for about a year now, although we’ve dated for 4 years. We’re very in love. Basically, I’ve been a pillow princess for the bulk of this time. There’s been no complaints and the sex has always been pretty good. Not amazing, like. Consistent missionary and he finishes soon enough. Kinda boring but it gets the job done (for him). I’ve never prioritized my own orgasm.
But guys…. stop just letting your man do what he wants to you. I used to justify my lack of effort as a result of not being pleasured enough. Just tell him you need longer foreplay (even just 5 minutes of cuddling) and it’d actually be incentive to be on top for once. I’m totally projecting, but I’m having the best sex ever now. And I’m on top! It’s so simple! Also, the bed SUCKS for riding. Use the floor,, it offers way more support and isn’t like a massive workout. Being on top is SO easy now and I get way more out of sex now.
I just needed to share this because holy shit!!! My libido is so spiked right now. It’s all I can think about and I had to share because I really just became resigned to how vanilla we are. But girl……… oh my god just tell him what you need so you can blow his mind.
Yeah anyways thanks for reading !!!
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