Its not like shes told me as a brag btw. I asked her sexual history. And she told me I am the first guy to be so conscious about pregnancy and using condoms. Her previous partners would just do it raw and pull out without following her cycle.
At times doing it multiple times one after another.
I know its better to practise safe sex. I dont want the risk of kids. I read up too much on horror stories on how unreliable pull out is.
But it just feels…I dont know. I feel jealous I cant reach that level of comfort and intimacy. She doesnt mind it raw btw. Its a me thing.
I also feel horrible I have a long refactory period. I wish I could go for more sooner.
Am I being ridiculous.
Edit: To clarify Im not mad or jealous at my GF. Im jealous at myself if that makes sense. Or rather feel that I wish I could be as brave as them so I can be more intimate with her.
Im not taking out on her. My title is poorly worded. Im jealous in the sense of level of intimacy she had with her ex partners but Im not mad or upset at her or anything.
Just feel a bit down that I cant give her maximum pleasure cause ahe does prefer it raw but Im scared.
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r/sex Its not like shes told me as a brag btw. I asked her sexual history. And she told me I am the first guy to be so conscious about pregnancy and using condoms. Her previous partners would just do it raw and pull out without following her cycle. At times doing it multiple times one after another. I know its better to practise safe sex. I dont want the risk of kids. I read up too much on horror stories on how unreliable pull out is. But it just feels…I dont know. I feel jealous I cant reach that level of comfort and intimacy. She doesnt mind it raw btw. Its a me thing. I also feel horrible I have a long refactory period. I wish I could go for more sooner. Am I being ridiculous. Edit: To clarify Im not mad or jealous at my GF. Im jealous at myself if that makes sense. Or rather feel that I wish I could be as brave as them so I can be more intimate with her. Im not taking out on her. My title is poorly worded. Im jealous in the sense of level of intimacy she had with her ex partners but Im not mad or upset at her or anything. Just feel a bit down that I cant give her maximum pleasure cause ahe does prefer it raw but Im scared. submitted by /u/slowdancing25 [link] [comments]
Its not like shes told me as a brag btw. I asked her sexual history. And she told me I am the first guy to be so conscious about pregnancy and using condoms. Her previous partners would just do it raw and pull out without following her cycle.
At times doing it multiple times one after another.
I know its better to practise safe sex. I dont want the risk of kids. I read up too much on horror stories on how unreliable pull out is.
But it just feels…I dont know. I feel jealous I cant reach that level of comfort and intimacy. She doesnt mind it raw btw. Its a me thing.
I also feel horrible I have a long refactory period. I wish I could go for more sooner.
Am I being ridiculous.
Edit: To clarify Im not mad or jealous at my GF. Im jealous at myself if that makes sense. Or rather feel that I wish I could be as brave as them so I can be more intimate with her.
Im not taking out on her. My title is poorly worded. Im jealous in the sense of level of intimacy she had with her ex partners but Im not mad or upset at her or anything.
Just feel a bit down that I cant give her maximum pleasure cause ahe does prefer it raw but Im scared.
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