So my husband and I have played around with introducing a third for a threesome for years and the opportunity finally came up at the beginning of 2022. A friend of mine from highschool was interested in being our unicorn as she was recently divorced and was moving back to our home state. She was a few hours away but drove to visit. I didn’t tell my husband that a threesome was on the table and told her to let me know if she liked him or if she’d be comfortable being with us. By the end of the day she said she was down and then I told my man. He was ecstatic of course and the threesome happened. All was great and she came back a few weeks later and stayed for a week because she wasn’t working. She started making me uncomfortable saying I was the one that got away, as we toyed around with each other in highschool when we were exploring our sexuality. That turned me off as it was purely sexual and I didn’t have that emotional connection.- she was cooking us meals, doing our laundry and such, which was nice, but made me feel really weird. My husband started messaging her separately and they had sexy conversations all day but I wasn’t horny all day so I wasn’t doing that. She and I have known each other for years so I was also left out on the whole getting to know each other process. The arrangement got super uncomfortable and I told them I wanted to end it. Both of them were unhappy and she cried. It was a big thing but I thought we ended on good terms, and it was clear that sex wasn’t a thing that would be happening with her again. Shortly after I found out I was pregnant and we moved on planning our lives again. We decided to move to another state near my family so they could help with the baby. When I was half way through my pregnancy, I moved before my husband because I got a job. He stayed behind at the house for a few months, to sell the house and to find a job. By the end of the year he moved up and a lot of our stuff went into storage. We went to the storage unit at the beginning of the year to grab some baby things last minute. There was a hamper with unwashed sheets and clothes so I grabbed that to clean, but I find two pairs of underwear that I knew were not mine. I ask him whose they are and he gaslights me saying they are mine but they wouldn’t even fit me so I was of course yelling at him. He convinces me they were must have been our the girl who we had a threesome with and he thought they were mine. It didn’t make sense why her underwear would be with bedsheets more than half of year since we last saw her. She confirmed they were here and said she wasn’t at my house and hadn’t spoken to him. I feel so dumb because I let it slide but today I decided to look at our text and call logs to find that the two of them had multiple lengthy phone calls that night and the next day that I confronted them about the underwear. I feel so dumb about bringing a third into my relationship because for all I know she basically lived with him the months I was apart from my husband. And now we have a newborn baby and there is too much evidence pointing to him being unfaithful with her while I was pregnant and alone for months. He’s supposed to watch the baby tonight while I go get my nails done and I want to confront him. I just don’t know how. Thoughts?
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r/sex So my husband and I have played around with introducing a third for a threesome for years and the opportunity finally came up at the beginning of 2022. A friend of mine from highschool was interested in being our unicorn as she was recently divorced and was moving back to our home state. She was a few hours away but drove to visit. I didn’t tell my husband that a threesome was on the table and told her to let me know if she liked him or if she’d be comfortable being with us. By the end of the day she said she was down and then I told my man. He was ecstatic of course and the threesome happened. All was great and she came back a few weeks later and stayed for a week because she wasn’t working. She started making me uncomfortable saying I was the one that got away, as we toyed around with each other in highschool when we were exploring our sexuality. That turned me off as it was purely sexual and I didn’t have that emotional connection.- she was cooking us meals, doing our laundry and such, which was nice, but made me feel really weird. My husband started messaging her separately and they had sexy conversations all day but I wasn’t horny all day so I wasn’t doing that. She and I have known each other for years so I was also left out on the whole getting to know each other process. The arrangement got super uncomfortable and I told them I wanted to end it. Both of them were unhappy and she cried. It was a big thing but I thought we ended on good terms, and it was clear that sex wasn’t a thing that would be happening with her again. Shortly after I found out I was pregnant and we moved on planning our lives again. We decided to move to another state near my family so they could help with the baby. When I was half way through my pregnancy, I moved before my husband because I got a job. He stayed behind at the house for a few months, to sell the house and to find a job. By the end of the year he moved up and a lot of our stuff went into storage. We went to the storage unit at the beginning of the year to grab some baby things last minute. There was a hamper with unwashed sheets and clothes so I grabbed that to clean, but I find two pairs of underwear that I knew were not mine. I ask him whose they are and he gaslights me saying they are mine but they wouldn’t even fit me so I was of course yelling at him. He convinces me they were must have been our the girl who we had a threesome with and he thought they were mine. It didn’t make sense why her underwear would be with bedsheets more than half of year since we last saw her. She confirmed they were here and said she wasn’t at my house and hadn’t spoken to him. I feel so dumb because I let it slide but today I decided to look at our text and call logs to find that the two of them had multiple lengthy phone calls that night and the next day that I confronted them about the underwear. I feel so dumb about bringing a third into my relationship because for all I know she basically lived with him the months I was apart from my husband. And now we have a newborn baby and there is too much evidence pointing to him being unfaithful with her while I was pregnant and alone for months. He’s supposed to watch the baby tonight while I go get my nails done and I want to confront him. I just don’t know how. Thoughts? submitted by /u/oceanmountainowl [link] [comments]
So my husband and I have played around with introducing a third for a threesome for years and the opportunity finally came up at the beginning of 2022. A friend of mine from highschool was interested in being our unicorn as she was recently divorced and was moving back to our home state. She was a few hours away but drove to visit. I didn’t tell my husband that a threesome was on the table and told her to let me know if she liked him or if she’d be comfortable being with us. By the end of the day she said she was down and then I told my man. He was ecstatic of course and the threesome happened. All was great and she came back a few weeks later and stayed for a week because she wasn’t working. She started making me uncomfortable saying I was the one that got away, as we toyed around with each other in highschool when we were exploring our sexuality. That turned me off as it was purely sexual and I didn’t have that emotional connection.- she was cooking us meals, doing our laundry and such, which was nice, but made me feel really weird. My husband started messaging her separately and they had sexy conversations all day but I wasn’t horny all day so I wasn’t doing that. She and I have known each other for years so I was also left out on the whole getting to know each other process. The arrangement got super uncomfortable and I told them I wanted to end it. Both of them were unhappy and she cried. It was a big thing but I thought we ended on good terms, and it was clear that sex wasn’t a thing that would be happening with her again. Shortly after I found out I was pregnant and we moved on planning our lives again. We decided to move to another state near my family so they could help with the baby. When I was half way through my pregnancy, I moved before my husband because I got a job. He stayed behind at the house for a few months, to sell the house and to find a job. By the end of the year he moved up and a lot of our stuff went into storage. We went to the storage unit at the beginning of the year to grab some baby things last minute. There was a hamper with unwashed sheets and clothes so I grabbed that to clean, but I find two pairs of underwear that I knew were not mine. I ask him whose they are and he gaslights me saying they are mine but they wouldn’t even fit me so I was of course yelling at him. He convinces me they were must have been our the girl who we had a threesome with and he thought they were mine. It didn’t make sense why her underwear would be with bedsheets more than half of year since we last saw her. She confirmed they were here and said she wasn’t at my house and hadn’t spoken to him. I feel so dumb because I let it slide but today I decided to look at our text and call logs to find that the two of them had multiple lengthy phone calls that night and the next day that I confronted them about the underwear. I feel so dumb about bringing a third into my relationship because for all I know she basically lived with him the months I was apart from my husband. And now we have a newborn baby and there is too much evidence pointing to him being unfaithful with her while I was pregnant and alone for months. He’s supposed to watch the baby tonight while I go get my nails done and I want to confront him. I just don’t know how. Thoughts?
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