I can’t stop stroking his penis too fast /u/Nearby-Can9806 Sex

This is a bit of a very specific and not a big problem lol.

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basically sometimes my boyfriend will give me a naked massage which then leads to him fingering me, basically a girls happy ending haha. He will stand next next to where I am laying and I like to give him a Handjob during this with it in mind that I want him to cum when I’m finished and this whole thing can go on for like up to an hour sometimes (I find it relaxing)

I want him to cum when it’s over because I want it in my mouth or on me. Problem is because this goes on for a while I have to go slow, but my mind isn’t always there especially when he starts making me feel really good I just naturally start matching his speed.

He’ll direct my arm away if he’s getting too close and I’ll play with his balls or something for like 20 seconds to let it cool down. But I end up just doing it again and getting it too on the edge to touch, otherwise I just keep having to stop over and over again.

You might say easy answer is just to not stroke his penis until the very end but I like playing with it throughout (It makes him cum more which is hot and also idk if anyone else feels the same but I find it really fun, intimate and therapeutic to do.) and I know he can last like most of it if I just did it properly because I have before. But I’m so stupid like there are times he’s clearly wanting me to stop and I dont because in my head he’s just rubbing my arm and then he has to pull away or say something.

This is a bit of a very specific and not a big problem lol.

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basically sometimes my boyfriend will give me a naked massage which then leads to him fingering me, basically a girls happy ending haha. He will stand next next to where I am laying and I like to give him a Handjob during this with it in mind that I want him to cum when I’m finished and this whole thing can go on for like up to an hour sometimes (I find it relaxing)

I want him to cum when it’s over because I want it in my mouth or on me. Problem is because this goes on for a while I have to go slow, but my mind isn’t always there especially when he starts making me feel really good I just naturally start matching his speed.

He’ll direct my arm away if he’s getting too close and I’ll play with his balls or something for like 20 seconds to let it cool down. But I end up just doing it again and getting it too on the edge to touch, otherwise I just keep having to stop over and over again.

You might say easy answer is just to not stroke his penis until the very end but I like playing with it throughout (It makes him cum more which is hot and also idk if anyone else feels the same but I find it really fun, intimate and therapeutic to do.) and I know he can last like most of it if I just did it properly because I have before. But I’m so stupid like there are times he’s clearly wanting me to stop and I dont because in my head he’s just rubbing my arm and then he has to pull away or say something.