I, 20F, am a virgin & have never been in a relationship, but I am ready to have a sex life, & I’ve prepared for one. I’ve taken all the recommended measures and I am confident enough in myself to prevent boundary pushing.
The only problem is my parents who are both very protective of me. Part of the reason is because I am the youngest and I am very small (5ft 95 lbs). If I ever go out, they have to know where I’m going, who I’m going with, and if they know I’m going to be out longer than an hour, they’ll want me to turn on FindMyIphone so they can track me, especially if I go out alone.
I want to start hooking up, but I don’t know how I can do that because my parents work from home full time, and I’m an online college student with no job. I don’t want to sneak out because I don’t want somebody else driving me to a 2nd location in the middle of the night which would theoretically be the only time to sneak out. ( I have my own car, but there’s also a loud remote gate blocking me in)
I have debated just talking to my mom about this but I really don’t want to have that conversation with her because it’s very uncomfortable for me, and I know she wouldn’t approve. She is the more protective one but she also tries to be understanding. I’ve taken baby steps by letting her know point blank that I’m an adult now and I want to go out and do things, but didn’t specify what.
I do have some ideas myself but they’re a bit convoluted and don’t really work unless something else works. So with the parameters set:
-Parents work from home
-Cameras outside the house
-Have my own car
-There’s a loud gate blocking my car
-Stay at home Online college kid
-No job
-FindMyPhone is a constant threat
…any advice? 🙏
submitted by /u/SinnerClair
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r/sex I, 20F, am a virgin & have never been in a relationship, but I am ready to have a sex life, & I’ve prepared for one. I’ve taken all the recommended measures and I am confident enough in myself to prevent boundary pushing. The only problem is my parents who are both very protective of me. Part of the reason is because I am the youngest and I am very small (5ft 95 lbs). If I ever go out, they have to know where I’m going, who I’m going with, and if they know I’m going to be out longer than an hour, they’ll want me to turn on FindMyIphone so they can track me, especially if I go out alone. I want to start hooking up, but I don’t know how I can do that because my parents work from home full time, and I’m an online college student with no job. I don’t want to sneak out because I don’t want somebody else driving me to a 2nd location in the middle of the night which would theoretically be the only time to sneak out. ( I have my own car, but there’s also a loud remote gate blocking me in) I have debated just talking to my mom about this but I really don’t want to have that conversation with her because it’s very uncomfortable for me, and I know she wouldn’t approve. She is the more protective one but she also tries to be understanding. I’ve taken baby steps by letting her know point blank that I’m an adult now and I want to go out and do things, but didn’t specify what. I do have some ideas myself but they’re a bit convoluted and don’t really work unless something else works. So with the parameters set: -Parents work from home -Cameras outside the house -Have my own car -There’s a loud gate blocking my car -Stay at home Online college kid -No job -FindMyPhone is a constant threat …any advice? 🙏 submitted by /u/SinnerClair [link] [comments]
I, 20F, am a virgin & have never been in a relationship, but I am ready to have a sex life, & I’ve prepared for one. I’ve taken all the recommended measures and I am confident enough in myself to prevent boundary pushing.
The only problem is my parents who are both very protective of me. Part of the reason is because I am the youngest and I am very small (5ft 95 lbs). If I ever go out, they have to know where I’m going, who I’m going with, and if they know I’m going to be out longer than an hour, they’ll want me to turn on FindMyIphone so they can track me, especially if I go out alone.
I want to start hooking up, but I don’t know how I can do that because my parents work from home full time, and I’m an online college student with no job. I don’t want to sneak out because I don’t want somebody else driving me to a 2nd location in the middle of the night which would theoretically be the only time to sneak out. ( I have my own car, but there’s also a loud remote gate blocking me in)
I have debated just talking to my mom about this but I really don’t want to have that conversation with her because it’s very uncomfortable for me, and I know she wouldn’t approve. She is the more protective one but she also tries to be understanding. I’ve taken baby steps by letting her know point blank that I’m an adult now and I want to go out and do things, but didn’t specify what.
I do have some ideas myself but they’re a bit convoluted and don’t really work unless something else works. So with the parameters set:
-Parents work from home
-Cameras outside the house
-Have my own car
-There’s a loud gate blocking my car
-Stay at home Online college kid
-No job
-FindMyPhone is a constant threat
…any advice? 🙏
submitted by /u/SinnerClair
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