So, I have dated dominant, assertive, borderline arrogant men in the past. I didn’t have to give them much indication when I was ready to have sex with them, they’d just initiate and back off if I didn’t respond well or said no.
I’m talking to/seeing this guy I met in my everyday life, organically, no dating apps. And I am so shy with him, and he’s so shy and gentle with me. He’s good to the core– just so sweet and wholesome. I’m sure he does and I’m wrong, but I get the sense that he never thinks about sex.
But…I’m ready. I want him. I don’t know what to do. Should I invite him over late at night for a movie and cuddle up and see what happens? Do I straight up ask him? Do I just break the touch barrier more and hope he gets the idea? I don’t really like to initiate, I’d rather let him do it.
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r/sex So, I have dated dominant, assertive, borderline arrogant men in the past. I didn’t have to give them much indication when I was ready to have sex with them, they’d just initiate and back off if I didn’t respond well or said no. I’m talking to/seeing this guy I met in my everyday life, organically, no dating apps. And I am so shy with him, and he’s so shy and gentle with me. He’s good to the core– just so sweet and wholesome. I’m sure he does and I’m wrong, but I get the sense that he never thinks about sex. But…I’m ready. I want him. I don’t know what to do. Should I invite him over late at night for a movie and cuddle up and see what happens? Do I straight up ask him? Do I just break the touch barrier more and hope he gets the idea? I don’t really like to initiate, I’d rather let him do it. submitted by /u/unohowifeel [link] [comments]
So, I have dated dominant, assertive, borderline arrogant men in the past. I didn’t have to give them much indication when I was ready to have sex with them, they’d just initiate and back off if I didn’t respond well or said no.
I’m talking to/seeing this guy I met in my everyday life, organically, no dating apps. And I am so shy with him, and he’s so shy and gentle with me. He’s good to the core– just so sweet and wholesome. I’m sure he does and I’m wrong, but I get the sense that he never thinks about sex.
But…I’m ready. I want him. I don’t know what to do. Should I invite him over late at night for a movie and cuddle up and see what happens? Do I straight up ask him? Do I just break the touch barrier more and hope he gets the idea? I don’t really like to initiate, I’d rather let him do it.
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