OK So I am a bisexual female. Married to a man, with kids.
Since kids my sex drive hasn’t been huge. But the past year or two it’s got to the point where I have zero interest almost all of the month. Until I am on my last day or so of my period and then boom! It’s back, for 2-3 days max! The rest of the month I literally find no-one attractive, and have no interest in sex with my husband, to the point where I actively don’t want him to touch me. But when I do have a sex drive, it’s the opposite! So it’s not an issue with my relationship, it’s just hormonal. I am on the pill but this pattern started when I wasn’t on any form of contraception so pretty sure the pill hasn’t caused it.
Has anyone else experienced this? What can I do? My husband says I should masturbate even when I don’t want to – and that might help, but I just have no motivation to do this. Life is really busy at the moment – kids, full time PhD, part time running a business. So when I’m not interested, I really do not feel like using my little free time on that!
Any advice, or anyone else had this?! Thanks!
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r/sex OK So I am a bisexual female. Married to a man, with kids. Since kids my sex drive hasn’t been huge. But the past year or two it’s got to the point where I have zero interest almost all of the month. Until I am on my last day or so of my period and then boom! It’s back, for 2-3 days max! The rest of the month I literally find no-one attractive, and have no interest in sex with my husband, to the point where I actively don’t want him to touch me. But when I do have a sex drive, it’s the opposite! So it’s not an issue with my relationship, it’s just hormonal. I am on the pill but this pattern started when I wasn’t on any form of contraception so pretty sure the pill hasn’t caused it. Has anyone else experienced this? What can I do? My husband says I should masturbate even when I don’t want to – and that might help, but I just have no motivation to do this. Life is really busy at the moment – kids, full time PhD, part time running a business. So when I’m not interested, I really do not feel like using my little free time on that! Any advice, or anyone else had this?! Thanks! submitted by /u/marinegeohannah [link] [comments]
OK So I am a bisexual female. Married to a man, with kids.
Since kids my sex drive hasn’t been huge. But the past year or two it’s got to the point where I have zero interest almost all of the month. Until I am on my last day or so of my period and then boom! It’s back, for 2-3 days max! The rest of the month I literally find no-one attractive, and have no interest in sex with my husband, to the point where I actively don’t want him to touch me. But when I do have a sex drive, it’s the opposite! So it’s not an issue with my relationship, it’s just hormonal. I am on the pill but this pattern started when I wasn’t on any form of contraception so pretty sure the pill hasn’t caused it.
Has anyone else experienced this? What can I do? My husband says I should masturbate even when I don’t want to – and that might help, but I just have no motivation to do this. Life is really busy at the moment – kids, full time PhD, part time running a business. So when I’m not interested, I really do not feel like using my little free time on that!
Any advice, or anyone else had this?! Thanks!
submitted by /u/marinegeohannah
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