My Situation is that I am going to sleep at a Woman’s place today which I have been seeing for the past month. She probably thinks or maybe expects that we are going to have sex but I don’t want have Sex tonight. The reason is that I recently saw another Person and had unprotected Sex (condom broke). And I’m just overly careful about sexual hygiene, so I wanna get tested first before continue to have sex with others.
She and I talked about seeing others and we are fine with it, we just made it a rule to respect the other person and to not mention these things.
So it’s kinda tricky. I feel like it would be kind of mean to mention sex with another person as a reason for not having sex with her, because of the rule. Maybe I should tell her I am tired? I don’t want her to think that I see her as less attractive now either tho.
What do you guys thinks should I tell her?
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r/sex My Situation is that I am going to sleep at a Woman’s place today which I have been seeing for the past month. She probably thinks or maybe expects that we are going to have sex but I don’t want have Sex tonight. The reason is that I recently saw another Person and had unprotected Sex (condom broke). And I’m just overly careful about sexual hygiene, so I wanna get tested first before continue to have sex with others. She and I talked about seeing others and we are fine with it, we just made it a rule to respect the other person and to not mention these things. So it’s kinda tricky. I feel like it would be kind of mean to mention sex with another person as a reason for not having sex with her, because of the rule. Maybe I should tell her I am tired? I don’t want her to think that I see her as less attractive now either tho. What do you guys thinks should I tell her? submitted by /u/skidudle [link] [comments]
My Situation is that I am going to sleep at a Woman’s place today which I have been seeing for the past month. She probably thinks or maybe expects that we are going to have sex but I don’t want have Sex tonight. The reason is that I recently saw another Person and had unprotected Sex (condom broke). And I’m just overly careful about sexual hygiene, so I wanna get tested first before continue to have sex with others.
She and I talked about seeing others and we are fine with it, we just made it a rule to respect the other person and to not mention these things.
So it’s kinda tricky. I feel like it would be kind of mean to mention sex with another person as a reason for not having sex with her, because of the rule. Maybe I should tell her I am tired? I don’t want her to think that I see her as less attractive now either tho.
What do you guys thinks should I tell her?
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