My partner(23F) of 4 years doesn’t want to perform ass play on myself although it is my(26M) kink. We’ve discussed it many times and although she’s never wanted me to do it to her she’s accepted doing it towards me a couple of times. However recently she’s came out and told me that she does not want to eat my ass nor use any toys for myself before or during sex. She is a very submissive person and feels my kink is submissive (it is) and puts her in a dominant role that she doesn’t want. I totally respect her feelings towards it and would never want to force anything onto her, but it does feel like I’m missing something when it isn’t done. Basically I wanted to ask if anyone had any advice on how should I approach the situation or am I thinking too much into it? She has her toys and I have mine and I tend to get eye rolls or annoy her when I use mine so it feels like my needs or wants are more of an after thought.
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r/sex My partner(23F) of 4 years doesn’t want to perform ass play on myself although it is my(26M) kink. We’ve discussed it many times and although she’s never wanted me to do it to her she’s accepted doing it towards me a couple of times. However recently she’s came out and told me that she does not want to eat my ass nor use any toys for myself before or during sex. She is a very submissive person and feels my kink is submissive (it is) and puts her in a dominant role that she doesn’t want. I totally respect her feelings towards it and would never want to force anything onto her, but it does feel like I’m missing something when it isn’t done. Basically I wanted to ask if anyone had any advice on how should I approach the situation or am I thinking too much into it? She has her toys and I have mine and I tend to get eye rolls or annoy her when I use mine so it feels like my needs or wants are more of an after thought. submitted by /u/rbofsteel [link] [comments]
My partner(23F) of 4 years doesn’t want to perform ass play on myself although it is my(26M) kink. We’ve discussed it many times and although she’s never wanted me to do it to her she’s accepted doing it towards me a couple of times. However recently she’s came out and told me that she does not want to eat my ass nor use any toys for myself before or during sex. She is a very submissive person and feels my kink is submissive (it is) and puts her in a dominant role that she doesn’t want. I totally respect her feelings towards it and would never want to force anything onto her, but it does feel like I’m missing something when it isn’t done. Basically I wanted to ask if anyone had any advice on how should I approach the situation or am I thinking too much into it? She has her toys and I have mine and I tend to get eye rolls or annoy her when I use mine so it feels like my needs or wants are more of an after thought.
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