Hi! I (28m) recently started dating this girl (25f). We really enjoy spending time with each other. Our dates are special and have definitely been one of the best ones i have been on. I am her first boyfriend who has been this intimate with her and she hasnt masturbated a lot before. We stay over at each other’s some times (3-4 times a week) and the sleepover involves a lot of kissing, touching, etc. We often end up dry humping each other and when things heat up, we help each other masturbate. (We haven’t had penetrative sex yet).
Because of this I often end up getting her to cum first thinking I’ll get off later. But as soon as she is done, she goes off to sleep and loses interest in the activity. She will no longer have the urge to makeout or get me off. I tried communicating this with her and had her give me a handjob once but she just gets super tired once she orgasms and wants to sleep. If it’s not too late in the night, she will be up for round 2 but it is the same story again.
I know we are in initial stages of our sex life, but is there anything that I can do to sort this out for myself?
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r/sex Hi! I (28m) recently started dating this girl (25f). We really enjoy spending time with each other. Our dates are special and have definitely been one of the best ones i have been on. I am her first boyfriend who has been this intimate with her and she hasnt masturbated a lot before. We stay over at each other’s some times (3-4 times a week) and the sleepover involves a lot of kissing, touching, etc. We often end up dry humping each other and when things heat up, we help each other masturbate. (We haven’t had penetrative sex yet). Because of this I often end up getting her to cum first thinking I’ll get off later. But as soon as she is done, she goes off to sleep and loses interest in the activity. She will no longer have the urge to makeout or get me off. I tried communicating this with her and had her give me a handjob once but she just gets super tired once she orgasms and wants to sleep. If it’s not too late in the night, she will be up for round 2 but it is the same story again. I know we are in initial stages of our sex life, but is there anything that I can do to sort this out for myself? submitted by /u/Particular-Edge-6665 [link] [comments]
Hi! I (28m) recently started dating this girl (25f). We really enjoy spending time with each other. Our dates are special and have definitely been one of the best ones i have been on. I am her first boyfriend who has been this intimate with her and she hasnt masturbated a lot before. We stay over at each other’s some times (3-4 times a week) and the sleepover involves a lot of kissing, touching, etc. We often end up dry humping each other and when things heat up, we help each other masturbate. (We haven’t had penetrative sex yet).
Because of this I often end up getting her to cum first thinking I’ll get off later. But as soon as she is done, she goes off to sleep and loses interest in the activity. She will no longer have the urge to makeout or get me off. I tried communicating this with her and had her give me a handjob once but she just gets super tired once she orgasms and wants to sleep. If it’s not too late in the night, she will be up for round 2 but it is the same story again.
I know we are in initial stages of our sex life, but is there anything that I can do to sort this out for myself?
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