I’m not kidding lol. I(f20) have been dating my boyfriend(m21) for a couple months now and it’s the most healthy relationship I’ve ever had, but our only issue is our sex life. When we have sex it’s really good but I’m often disappointed after because it’s done so quick which at first I thought was kind of cute because it meant he really liked me but after a while it’s becoming an issue. We do foreplay but I find I have a higher sex drive than him and I’d love to dirty talk and make it more kinky but I don’t because I’m afraid he will just finish lol. We usually only have sex once a day which I normally wouldn’t mind but when it’s all over in under 5 minutes I’m a bit upset because I’m also someone who struggles to have orgasms and I find myself internally getting frustrated because I love him and don’t wanna make him feel bad for something he can’t control. We have somewhat talked about it and he said he tries to think of other things to stop him but obviously it isn’t working lol. I try to initiate sex more with him but he usually won’t have sex with me again for the day if we already did and I don’t want to overstep his boundaries because he isn’t an overly sexual person and mainly enjoys quality time together which I love but I’d just like to at least get close to finishing with him. Does anyone have anyyy advice on lasting longer/what i should do differently?
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r/sex I’m not kidding lol. I(f20) have been dating my boyfriend(m21) for a couple months now and it’s the most healthy relationship I’ve ever had, but our only issue is our sex life. When we have sex it’s really good but I’m often disappointed after because it’s done so quick which at first I thought was kind of cute because it meant he really liked me but after a while it’s becoming an issue. We do foreplay but I find I have a higher sex drive than him and I’d love to dirty talk and make it more kinky but I don’t because I’m afraid he will just finish lol. We usually only have sex once a day which I normally wouldn’t mind but when it’s all over in under 5 minutes I’m a bit upset because I’m also someone who struggles to have orgasms and I find myself internally getting frustrated because I love him and don’t wanna make him feel bad for something he can’t control. We have somewhat talked about it and he said he tries to think of other things to stop him but obviously it isn’t working lol. I try to initiate sex more with him but he usually won’t have sex with me again for the day if we already did and I don’t want to overstep his boundaries because he isn’t an overly sexual person and mainly enjoys quality time together which I love but I’d just like to at least get close to finishing with him. Does anyone have anyyy advice on lasting longer/what i should do differently? submitted by /u/Lyran_star [link] [comments]
I’m not kidding lol. I(f20) have been dating my boyfriend(m21) for a couple months now and it’s the most healthy relationship I’ve ever had, but our only issue is our sex life. When we have sex it’s really good but I’m often disappointed after because it’s done so quick which at first I thought was kind of cute because it meant he really liked me but after a while it’s becoming an issue. We do foreplay but I find I have a higher sex drive than him and I’d love to dirty talk and make it more kinky but I don’t because I’m afraid he will just finish lol. We usually only have sex once a day which I normally wouldn’t mind but when it’s all over in under 5 minutes I’m a bit upset because I’m also someone who struggles to have orgasms and I find myself internally getting frustrated because I love him and don’t wanna make him feel bad for something he can’t control. We have somewhat talked about it and he said he tries to think of other things to stop him but obviously it isn’t working lol. I try to initiate sex more with him but he usually won’t have sex with me again for the day if we already did and I don’t want to overstep his boundaries because he isn’t an overly sexual person and mainly enjoys quality time together which I love but I’d just like to at least get close to finishing with him. Does anyone have anyyy advice on lasting longer/what i should do differently?
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