Losing erection during oral/gf not the biggest fan of oral anyway? /u/Pcolaking Sex

So I really want to please my girl and I want our time together to be focused on her. For one, she is reall into PIV and doesn’t seem that into oral, but I still want to get her to come first before PIV.

I also end up getting too focused on the head that I’ll lose my erection and then get anxiety about that which interrupts her desire for PIV.

A few times I have gone down on her after sex if I accidently finish to quickly, but:

I want to know if this happens to anyone else/else’s male partner?

Any recommendations or opinions for a man who really wants to please his girl but struggling with the above? Can anyone of any gender give me insight or advice or thoughts?

(We have only been together 5 months and are long distance as well. She also doesn’t seem really experienced with partners that are into pleasing her and doesn’t master bate, so she doesn’t really know how to tell me what she wants except that she wants me inside)

So I really want to please my girl and I want our time together to be focused on her. For one, she is reall into PIV and doesn’t seem that into oral, but I still want to get her to come first before PIV.

I also end up getting too focused on the head that I’ll lose my erection and then get anxiety about that which interrupts her desire for PIV.

A few times I have gone down on her after sex if I accidently finish to quickly, but:

I want to know if this happens to anyone else/else’s male partner?

Any recommendations or opinions for a man who really wants to please his girl but struggling with the above? Can anyone of any gender give me insight or advice or thoughts?

(We have only been together 5 months and are long distance as well. She also doesn’t seem really experienced with partners that are into pleasing her and doesn’t master bate, so she doesn’t really know how to tell me what she wants except that she wants me inside)