Hi guys, just wanted to ask some opinions. I don’t like hooking up before i am officially in the relationship but my recent date with a guy I’ve been seeing for few months… him and I we kinda led into it and had sex. I feel really insecure about it right now. Also I’ve never really had sex except with 1 guy (now it’s 2 guys I guess) and it was in a different language so I didn’t exactly know what to tell him before or during it. Like it was all new to me.
I know it sounds like a dumb question but I was mostly very silent during it… and since it was unexpected I don’t think I was really turned on. I was just scared the whole time and couldn’t focus. Mean to say this but it wasn’t really the greatest experience too. Is it because it’s my first time with this guy? Does it get better over time??
And teach me like a baby please guys, what do you guys usually do or say before or during sex or after? What are some lines that are commonly used (I genuinely dont know) I think he tried to initiate some conversation about what I like, and how he also felt a bit insecure since I wasn’t really talking through it – and told me it’ll get better over time.
is it normal for me to ask when he had sex last time? I would feel insecure if he slept with someone else while he was ‘dating’ me…
TL;DR awkward first sex, does it get better over time? I dont have much experience as well. What can I do or say better?
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r/sex Hi guys, just wanted to ask some opinions. I don’t like hooking up before i am officially in the relationship but my recent date with a guy I’ve been seeing for few months… him and I we kinda led into it and had sex. I feel really insecure about it right now. Also I’ve never really had sex except with 1 guy (now it’s 2 guys I guess) and it was in a different language so I didn’t exactly know what to tell him before or during it. Like it was all new to me. I know it sounds like a dumb question but I was mostly very silent during it… and since it was unexpected I don’t think I was really turned on. I was just scared the whole time and couldn’t focus. Mean to say this but it wasn’t really the greatest experience too. Is it because it’s my first time with this guy? Does it get better over time?? And teach me like a baby please guys, what do you guys usually do or say before or during sex or after? What are some lines that are commonly used (I genuinely dont know) I think he tried to initiate some conversation about what I like, and how he also felt a bit insecure since I wasn’t really talking through it – and told me it’ll get better over time. is it normal for me to ask when he had sex last time? I would feel insecure if he slept with someone else while he was ‘dating’ me… TL;DR awkward first sex, does it get better over time? I dont have much experience as well. What can I do or say better? submitted by /u/Serenitei [link] [comments]
Hi guys, just wanted to ask some opinions. I don’t like hooking up before i am officially in the relationship but my recent date with a guy I’ve been seeing for few months… him and I we kinda led into it and had sex. I feel really insecure about it right now. Also I’ve never really had sex except with 1 guy (now it’s 2 guys I guess) and it was in a different language so I didn’t exactly know what to tell him before or during it. Like it was all new to me.
I know it sounds like a dumb question but I was mostly very silent during it… and since it was unexpected I don’t think I was really turned on. I was just scared the whole time and couldn’t focus. Mean to say this but it wasn’t really the greatest experience too. Is it because it’s my first time with this guy? Does it get better over time??
And teach me like a baby please guys, what do you guys usually do or say before or during sex or after? What are some lines that are commonly used (I genuinely dont know) I think he tried to initiate some conversation about what I like, and how he also felt a bit insecure since I wasn’t really talking through it – and told me it’ll get better over time.
is it normal for me to ask when he had sex last time? I would feel insecure if he slept with someone else while he was ‘dating’ me…
TL;DR awkward first sex, does it get better over time? I dont have much experience as well. What can I do or say better?
submitted by /u/Serenitei
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