I’m a 29F, have been dating 36M for a couple of weeks. Met on dating app. Dates going well and we’ve had sex twice.
Sex is really good – great chemistry, making out, foreplay, oral sex (literally the best I have experienced maybe ever), and the actual sex. He’s very generous and always trying to make me cum. Whenever I’m with a new partner I won’t cum for a while until I feel really comfortable with someone – can take me several weeks to get comfortable and then I’ll be able to fully surrender and get there. I’ve told him this.
So when I’ve had sex with him I’ve been like right on the edge but just not able to quite get there yet even though it feels incredible, and I communicate this to him. In the process he then stops and he then doesn’t cum. I asked him about it and he said it’s because if he notices the other person isn’t gonna cum, he doesn’t really want to. Says his ultimate turn on is seeing me cum.
He’s always super complementary of me during which feels amazing, and I am to him too. He’s very giving, says he loves seeing me getting excited. I guess I’m just wondering if this is something anyone else has experienced? I am so used to the guy always cumming so it makes me feel kind of bad and like I’m failing in some way. Anyone have any thoughts? Thanks
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r/sex I’m a 29F, have been dating 36M for a couple of weeks. Met on dating app. Dates going well and we’ve had sex twice. Sex is really good – great chemistry, making out, foreplay, oral sex (literally the best I have experienced maybe ever), and the actual sex. He’s very generous and always trying to make me cum. Whenever I’m with a new partner I won’t cum for a while until I feel really comfortable with someone – can take me several weeks to get comfortable and then I’ll be able to fully surrender and get there. I’ve told him this. So when I’ve had sex with him I’ve been like right on the edge but just not able to quite get there yet even though it feels incredible, and I communicate this to him. In the process he then stops and he then doesn’t cum. I asked him about it and he said it’s because if he notices the other person isn’t gonna cum, he doesn’t really want to. Says his ultimate turn on is seeing me cum. He’s always super complementary of me during which feels amazing, and I am to him too. He’s very giving, says he loves seeing me getting excited. I guess I’m just wondering if this is something anyone else has experienced? I am so used to the guy always cumming so it makes me feel kind of bad and like I’m failing in some way. Anyone have any thoughts? Thanks submitted by /u/helpmeplsreditors [link] [comments]
I’m a 29F, have been dating 36M for a couple of weeks. Met on dating app. Dates going well and we’ve had sex twice.
Sex is really good – great chemistry, making out, foreplay, oral sex (literally the best I have experienced maybe ever), and the actual sex. He’s very generous and always trying to make me cum. Whenever I’m with a new partner I won’t cum for a while until I feel really comfortable with someone – can take me several weeks to get comfortable and then I’ll be able to fully surrender and get there. I’ve told him this.
So when I’ve had sex with him I’ve been like right on the edge but just not able to quite get there yet even though it feels incredible, and I communicate this to him. In the process he then stops and he then doesn’t cum. I asked him about it and he said it’s because if he notices the other person isn’t gonna cum, he doesn’t really want to. Says his ultimate turn on is seeing me cum.
He’s always super complementary of me during which feels amazing, and I am to him too. He’s very giving, says he loves seeing me getting excited. I guess I’m just wondering if this is something anyone else has experienced? I am so used to the guy always cumming so it makes me feel kind of bad and like I’m failing in some way. Anyone have any thoughts? Thanks
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