Feeling unappreciated as a HL female /u/Throwawayyyygal999 Sex

I’ve (29F) been in a relationship with my bf (33M) for about 6 months now. I have an extremely high sex drive. He is usually able to keep up with this and we have good sex most days (1-3 times a day). I really like giving head as well and I do that almost every day. While I do enjoy giving it, he never does much of anything in return. It has been a turn off that he doesn’t seem to want/care to pleasure me like I do to him.

I was thinking about it and most (90%) of the guys I’ve been with have never been interested in giving me an orgasm.

What I’m getting at is, I really don’t feel appreciated for how much I do in the bedroom.. and I never really have. I do it most days for my own enjoyment, but being with people who never care about getting me off, is really starting to bother me. I feel like I am being taken advantage of in a sense and they don’t need to put in the effort like I do. Some days I honestly just feel like a receptacle. My boyfriend and I will make out, I will give him head, and then we will have sex. Sometimes he will lose his erection during sex, and will have me give him head again. It just feels forced at times. There are other times where he will offer to get me off after sex but it’s not common.

Sex is very important to me and I’m just really worried that I’m never going to be with someone who gives the effort that I do. It has never been reciprocated even when I talk about it with my partners. I guess this is more of a vent than anything. I just really wish I was more appreciated for the things I’m willing to do and do in the bedroom. I just feel stupid. Thinking about it. Even though I do enjoy the sex most days.. it just really isn’t fair anymore. Like I said, I’m just worried I will never be with anyone who gives the effort that I do or wants to.

TL;DR: feeling down as a HL female, not appreciated and no effort from partners to essentially match my energy in the bedroom.

I’ve (29F) been in a relationship with my bf (33M) for about 6 months now. I have an extremely high sex drive. He is usually able to keep up with this and we have good sex most days (1-3 times a day). I really like giving head as well and I do that almost every day. While I do enjoy giving it, he never does much of anything in return. It has been a turn off that he doesn’t seem to want/care to pleasure me like I do to him.

I was thinking about it and most (90%) of the guys I’ve been with have never been interested in giving me an orgasm.

What I’m getting at is, I really don’t feel appreciated for how much I do in the bedroom.. and I never really have. I do it most days for my own enjoyment, but being with people who never care about getting me off, is really starting to bother me. I feel like I am being taken advantage of in a sense and they don’t need to put in the effort like I do. Some days I honestly just feel like a receptacle. My boyfriend and I will make out, I will give him head, and then we will have sex. Sometimes he will lose his erection during sex, and will have me give him head again. It just feels forced at times. There are other times where he will offer to get me off after sex but it’s not common.

Sex is very important to me and I’m just really worried that I’m never going to be with someone who gives the effort that I do. It has never been reciprocated even when I talk about it with my partners. I guess this is more of a vent than anything. I just really wish I was more appreciated for the things I’m willing to do and do in the bedroom. I just feel stupid. Thinking about it. Even though I do enjoy the sex most days.. it just really isn’t fair anymore. Like I said, I’m just worried I will never be with anyone who gives the effort that I do or wants to.

TL;DR: feeling down as a HL female, not appreciated and no effort from partners to essentially match my energy in the bedroom.