Tired of being this way, I want to be better /u/theroughgoer Sex

I need words of advice, girls nd guys.

I’m (28m) married to a good looking woman (41f). Shes an awesome wife, caring, fun, good looking body. Our sex life hasn’t been great and it’s because of me. Definitely performance anxiety. I just get myself to worked up. Now our sex is good, she always orgasms, but I feel like I don’t “blow her mind”. She absolutely loves doggy and especially prone, but she has that ass that just throws me over the edge…it’s big, it’s shakes, I go crazy….any advice on how to keep stride during those positions and get over the anxiety that is causing me to put off sex

I need words of advice, girls nd guys.

I’m (28m) married to a good looking woman (41f). Shes an awesome wife, caring, fun, good looking body. Our sex life hasn’t been great and it’s because of me. Definitely performance anxiety. I just get myself to worked up. Now our sex is good, she always orgasms, but I feel like I don’t “blow her mind”. She absolutely loves doggy and especially prone, but she has that ass that just throws me over the edge…it’s big, it’s shakes, I go crazy….any advice on how to keep stride during those positions and get over the anxiety that is causing me to put off sex