So a girl I slept with told me my junk wasn’t thick enough and I’m not sure how to feel about it. /u/trianglechoke89 Sex

This was off the back of a first date the other night. Actually the topic first came up during the date itself but I didn’t think much of it, we were joking about sex or something and she said something about the “girth being more important than that size”.

Anyways later that evening we ended up sleeping together for the first time, I could kinda tell she wasn’t enjoying it as much as me. So afterwards I just asked, and she said that she prefers the guy to be “thicker” down there and that she didn’t enjoy it so much. Can’t fault her for being honest I guess 😂

I think in the past this would’ve rattled me, but I kinda just brushed it off and went to sleep surprisingly. I’ve been quite sexually active with various partners this past 12 months, and I had no complaints about my size, in fact they all told me how great I was in bed and they were very enthusiastic about having sex again and again. So I dunno.

Should I be offended? Ironically she wants to keep seeing me, I guess she’s just brutally honest but I think it will be on my head the next time we have sex. It kinda caught me off guard and not sure what to think, the logical part of me seems to think it’s just vaginas come in all shapes and sizes and it’s not one size fits all, the ones that said I was great was a good fit, and she just wasn’t.

This was off the back of a first date the other night. Actually the topic first came up during the date itself but I didn’t think much of it, we were joking about sex or something and she said something about the “girth being more important than that size”.

Anyways later that evening we ended up sleeping together for the first time, I could kinda tell she wasn’t enjoying it as much as me. So afterwards I just asked, and she said that she prefers the guy to be “thicker” down there and that she didn’t enjoy it so much. Can’t fault her for being honest I guess 😂

I think in the past this would’ve rattled me, but I kinda just brushed it off and went to sleep surprisingly. I’ve been quite sexually active with various partners this past 12 months, and I had no complaints about my size, in fact they all told me how great I was in bed and they were very enthusiastic about having sex again and again. So I dunno.

Should I be offended? Ironically she wants to keep seeing me, I guess she’s just brutally honest but I think it will be on my head the next time we have sex. It kinda caught me off guard and not sure what to think, the logical part of me seems to think it’s just vaginas come in all shapes and sizes and it’s not one size fits all, the ones that said I was great was a good fit, and she just wasn’t.