So I know this seems like a small thing but I’m very annoyed. Our sex life has become very mundane and I will admit that I’m bored. He’s very vanilla and I am more adventurous but I respect his boundaries. We’ve made a commitment to have sex at least once a week. He has become a very selfish lover, I give him frequent BJs and sex always starts with me on top.
Earlier in the week I had done a ton of laundry but didn’t put his away because his side of the wardrobe was a complete disaster. I offered to organize it for him and in a playful way said I would do that if in return he would eat me out. He eagerly agreed. The next day I organized the wardrobe, sorted and hung everything, color coded etc. I put in alot of effort. A couple days later we smoked a joint (my aphrodisiac). I was freshly showered, shaved and was pretty horny. He came into bed and asked if I wanted my part of the deal. We ended up fooling around but he didn’t go down on me. I can’t remember the last time he did. It’s frustrating to me.
How do I bring this up? It seems trivial but it’s an important part of sex to me.
TLDR my husband didn’t go down on me
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r/sex So I know this seems like a small thing but I’m very annoyed. Our sex life has become very mundane and I will admit that I’m bored. He’s very vanilla and I am more adventurous but I respect his boundaries. We’ve made a commitment to have sex at least once a week. He has become a very selfish lover, I give him frequent BJs and sex always starts with me on top. Earlier in the week I had done a ton of laundry but didn’t put his away because his side of the wardrobe was a complete disaster. I offered to organize it for him and in a playful way said I would do that if in return he would eat me out. He eagerly agreed. The next day I organized the wardrobe, sorted and hung everything, color coded etc. I put in alot of effort. A couple days later we smoked a joint (my aphrodisiac). I was freshly showered, shaved and was pretty horny. He came into bed and asked if I wanted my part of the deal. We ended up fooling around but he didn’t go down on me. I can’t remember the last time he did. It’s frustrating to me. How do I bring this up? It seems trivial but it’s an important part of sex to me. TLDR my husband didn’t go down on me submitted by /u/peeshermanfortytwo [link] [comments]
So I know this seems like a small thing but I’m very annoyed. Our sex life has become very mundane and I will admit that I’m bored. He’s very vanilla and I am more adventurous but I respect his boundaries. We’ve made a commitment to have sex at least once a week. He has become a very selfish lover, I give him frequent BJs and sex always starts with me on top.
Earlier in the week I had done a ton of laundry but didn’t put his away because his side of the wardrobe was a complete disaster. I offered to organize it for him and in a playful way said I would do that if in return he would eat me out. He eagerly agreed. The next day I organized the wardrobe, sorted and hung everything, color coded etc. I put in alot of effort. A couple days later we smoked a joint (my aphrodisiac). I was freshly showered, shaved and was pretty horny. He came into bed and asked if I wanted my part of the deal. We ended up fooling around but he didn’t go down on me. I can’t remember the last time he did. It’s frustrating to me.
How do I bring this up? It seems trivial but it’s an important part of sex to me.
TLDR my husband didn’t go down on me
submitted by /u/peeshermanfortytwo
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