Lost my virginity to a hookup /u/HistorianAcrobatic44 Sex

I (25f) grew up very religious – thus no sex. Over the last year or two, I have really distanced myself from the church I grew up in and feel a lot freer and more content with my life.

I’ve had a couple hookups, but none that I’ve let progress to sex.

Then, last night, I was out drinking with some friends and a few of us decided to go back to one of their houses and smoke a little weed. It was all good and one guy (29m) had been very touchy all night. We are acquaintances, but not more than that.

Eventually, our friends went upstairs and he and I started messing around. He asked if I wanted to go upstairs and I said yes. One thing led to another and then we were having sex.

I am totally on board with the whole “it’s my virginity I can do what I want with it” idea, but I can’t help but feel a little guilty. I’m sure some of that stems from growing up in a very strict religion, but I also feel bad for not telling him? And for just giving it up like that? I think I felt like if I kept waiting for the “right” person it would never happen. I wanted to take that step and open myself up to having sex with other guys.

Idk, I’m not super upset about the whole thing, but would love some advice or support. The sex was fine and I’ve used toys so it wasn’t painful or anything. Should I be feeling bad for not telling him and for losing it on a whim?

I (25f) grew up very religious – thus no sex. Over the last year or two, I have really distanced myself from the church I grew up in and feel a lot freer and more content with my life.

I’ve had a couple hookups, but none that I’ve let progress to sex.

Then, last night, I was out drinking with some friends and a few of us decided to go back to one of their houses and smoke a little weed. It was all good and one guy (29m) had been very touchy all night. We are acquaintances, but not more than that.

Eventually, our friends went upstairs and he and I started messing around. He asked if I wanted to go upstairs and I said yes. One thing led to another and then we were having sex.

I am totally on board with the whole “it’s my virginity I can do what I want with it” idea, but I can’t help but feel a little guilty. I’m sure some of that stems from growing up in a very strict religion, but I also feel bad for not telling him? And for just giving it up like that? I think I felt like if I kept waiting for the “right” person it would never happen. I wanted to take that step and open myself up to having sex with other guys.

Idk, I’m not super upset about the whole thing, but would love some advice or support. The sex was fine and I’ve used toys so it wasn’t painful or anything. Should I be feeling bad for not telling him and for losing it on a whim?