If the sex is already good, are introducing sex toys a good idea? /u/Hellasketch69 Sex

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A little preface, I’ve known my girl since I was 14. We’ve hooked up every now and then over the course of 15 years and are now 30. 6 months ago we decide that we should actually date each other and we’ve been doing so since August. Our sex life has been amazing tbh. We have intercouse multiple times a day, it’s always ravenous, and we always have intense orgasms together (multiple times a day). I can honestly say, I’ve never been hornier in my life and she tells me the same thing. Just yesterday we talked about getting a vibrator and I agreed that it might be cool. We got one, and I used it on her. She loved it. Instead of having sex and maybe taking 10 mins or so to make her orgasm, it literally took like 2 minutes. While this was great for her, I immediately did not feel well and lost all my apitite for sex. Although I can make her finish myself, I could tell the vibrator was very intense and was something that I myself could never mimic. My question is, if our sex life is already good could sex toys ruin things? We’ve been completely transparent with each other about our sexual needs, and I can say that we are both enjoying it very much without the toys but after using the vibrator on her, I’m feeling a bit odd. Am I being weird for not feeling “ok” about this? Especially since she and I are both well equipped to satisfy each other?

On another note, I’ve had numerous relationships where my partner had a toy. I’ve been okay with it. During our sessions, we would just have sex with each other, and whenever I wasn’t around they’d use the toy. This is just the first time I’ve ever seen it in action.

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​r/sex A little preface, I’ve known my girl since I was 14. We’ve hooked up every now and then over the course of 15 years and are now 30. 6 months ago we decide that we should actually date each other and we’ve been doing so since August. Our sex life has been amazing tbh. We have intercouse multiple times a day, it’s always ravenous, and we always have intense orgasms together (multiple times a day). I can honestly say, I’ve never been hornier in my life and she tells me the same thing. Just yesterday we talked about getting a vibrator and I agreed that it might be cool. We got one, and I used it on her. She loved it. Instead of having sex and maybe taking 10 mins or so to make her orgasm, it literally took like 2 minutes. While this was great for her, I immediately did not feel well and lost all my apitite for sex. Although I can make her finish myself, I could tell the vibrator was very intense and was something that I myself could never mimic. My question is, if our sex life is already good could sex toys ruin things? We’ve been completely transparent with each other about our sexual needs, and I can say that we are both enjoying it very much without the toys but after using the vibrator on her, I’m feeling a bit odd. Am I being weird for not feeling “ok” about this? Especially since she and I are both well equipped to satisfy each other? On another note, I’ve had numerous relationships where my partner had a toy. I’ve been okay with it. During our sessions, we would just have sex with each other, and whenever I wasn’t around they’d use the toy. This is just the first time I’ve ever seen it in action. submitted by /u/Hellasketch69 [link] [comments] 

A little preface, I’ve known my girl since I was 14. We’ve hooked up every now and then over the course of 15 years and are now 30. 6 months ago we decide that we should actually date each other and we’ve been doing so since August. Our sex life has been amazing tbh. We have intercouse multiple times a day, it’s always ravenous, and we always have intense orgasms together (multiple times a day). I can honestly say, I’ve never been hornier in my life and she tells me the same thing. Just yesterday we talked about getting a vibrator and I agreed that it might be cool. We got one, and I used it on her. She loved it. Instead of having sex and maybe taking 10 mins or so to make her orgasm, it literally took like 2 minutes. While this was great for her, I immediately did not feel well and lost all my apitite for sex. Although I can make her finish myself, I could tell the vibrator was very intense and was something that I myself could never mimic. My question is, if our sex life is already good could sex toys ruin things? We’ve been completely transparent with each other about our sexual needs, and I can say that we are both enjoying it very much without the toys but after using the vibrator on her, I’m feeling a bit odd. Am I being weird for not feeling “ok” about this? Especially since she and I are both well equipped to satisfy each other?

On another note, I’ve had numerous relationships where my partner had a toy. I’ve been okay with it. During our sessions, we would just have sex with each other, and whenever I wasn’t around they’d use the toy. This is just the first time I’ve ever seen it in action.

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