Hi there! I (34f) know this isn’t a new thing for couples to do, but it’s new to me. Context: been seeing a guy (36m) for a couple of months – great sex life, I’m trying a lot of new things with him, including anal (still working on that) and having my ass eaten/fingered.
While I was giving him a blowjob, which I love to do, he asked me to put a finger in his ass. I am totally on board, but in the moment def ignored the request and when he asked again I said that I need to work up to that.
My question for you all: how? Do I stop to get lube (I need it and prefer it, though sometimes saliva is enough)? I also am growing out my nails as 1) I started getting manicures again 2) he loves having nails dug into his back. Here’s the thing – I’ve asked him to keep his nails trimmed and filed if he plans to put them inside my ass because otherwise I find it painful.
Help me out, friends!
Signed,
An inexperienced ass fingerer, overthinker, but at least gives the best blowjobs 😂
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r/sex Hi there! I (34f) know this isn’t a new thing for couples to do, but it’s new to me. Context: been seeing a guy (36m) for a couple of months – great sex life, I’m trying a lot of new things with him, including anal (still working on that) and having my ass eaten/fingered. While I was giving him a blowjob, which I love to do, he asked me to put a finger in his ass. I am totally on board, but in the moment def ignored the request and when he asked again I said that I need to work up to that. My question for you all: how? Do I stop to get lube (I need it and prefer it, though sometimes saliva is enough)? I also am growing out my nails as 1) I started getting manicures again 2) he loves having nails dug into his back. Here’s the thing – I’ve asked him to keep his nails trimmed and filed if he plans to put them inside my ass because otherwise I find it painful. Help me out, friends! Signed, An inexperienced ass fingerer, overthinker, but at least gives the best blowjobs 😂 submitted by /u/littleac0rns [link] [comments]
Hi there! I (34f) know this isn’t a new thing for couples to do, but it’s new to me. Context: been seeing a guy (36m) for a couple of months – great sex life, I’m trying a lot of new things with him, including anal (still working on that) and having my ass eaten/fingered.
While I was giving him a blowjob, which I love to do, he asked me to put a finger in his ass. I am totally on board, but in the moment def ignored the request and when he asked again I said that I need to work up to that.
My question for you all: how? Do I stop to get lube (I need it and prefer it, though sometimes saliva is enough)? I also am growing out my nails as 1) I started getting manicures again 2) he loves having nails dug into his back. Here’s the thing – I’ve asked him to keep his nails trimmed and filed if he plans to put them inside my ass because otherwise I find it painful.
Help me out, friends!
Signed,
An inexperienced ass fingerer, overthinker, but at least gives the best blowjobs 😂
submitted by /u/littleac0rns
[link] [comments]