Do you sometimes continue having sex despite not being into it? What can be done in this situation? /u/SunAggravating6011 Sex

Last night I (18F) met up with a guy I matched with for a date. It went well so I went home with him.

We start doing foreplay and he makes me cum twice, so I’m feeling pretty satisfied. He wanted to have sex with me so he puts the condom on and starts.

But it’s just not doing it for me. Usually I do get plenty of pleasure from penetration and I’m able to cum one or two more times. This time I just wasn’t feeling it I guess. There wasn’t an issue with his size, or the way he was thrusting into me or anything. I didn’t tell him at any point that it wasn’t working for me because I didn’t want to risk embarrassing him. Cause genuinely it wasn’t his fault. He did put effort in and listened when I made suggestions.

I considered just telling him that it wasn’t working out and to end it. But he was being really vocal and moaning a lot. I thought it would have been selfish of me to just stop him considering he made me cum twice and he hadn’t yet.

So I just decided to continue anyway. He asked me to throw it back for him after a while. I really didn’t feel like it, but again, I didn’t want to be selfish and I wanted him to cum so I did it for him even though I didn’t want to.

He did cum after like 20 minutes. But soon after he changed the condom and went back inside me for round two. In the end it took him about an hour to finish for the second time. I was annoyed it took him that long. I didn’t tell him though. I went home afterward.

I’m not looking for sympathy or anything like that. As the guy did nothing wrong. He had no idea I felt that way and I don’t feel like I got taken advantage of.

But is it normal for this to happen sometimes when you hookup? Do any other women just continue with sex when the guy did nothing wrong? What are my options if this happens again?

Last night I (18F) met up with a guy I matched with for a date. It went well so I went home with him.

We start doing foreplay and he makes me cum twice, so I’m feeling pretty satisfied. He wanted to have sex with me so he puts the condom on and starts.

But it’s just not doing it for me. Usually I do get plenty of pleasure from penetration and I’m able to cum one or two more times. This time I just wasn’t feeling it I guess. There wasn’t an issue with his size, or the way he was thrusting into me or anything. I didn’t tell him at any point that it wasn’t working for me because I didn’t want to risk embarrassing him. Cause genuinely it wasn’t his fault. He did put effort in and listened when I made suggestions.

I considered just telling him that it wasn’t working out and to end it. But he was being really vocal and moaning a lot. I thought it would have been selfish of me to just stop him considering he made me cum twice and he hadn’t yet.

So I just decided to continue anyway. He asked me to throw it back for him after a while. I really didn’t feel like it, but again, I didn’t want to be selfish and I wanted him to cum so I did it for him even though I didn’t want to.

He did cum after like 20 minutes. But soon after he changed the condom and went back inside me for round two. In the end it took him about an hour to finish for the second time. I was annoyed it took him that long. I didn’t tell him though. I went home afterward.

I’m not looking for sympathy or anything like that. As the guy did nothing wrong. He had no idea I felt that way and I don’t feel like I got taken advantage of.

But is it normal for this to happen sometimes when you hookup? Do any other women just continue with sex when the guy did nothing wrong? What are my options if this happens again?