Cant seem to climax with others /u/Naru_Eternal Sex

Just looking for some advice on what I should do in this situation.

For starters, I am 21yo male, and have a healthy sex drive.

When I’m by myself, regardless of method, I seem to have no problems finishing in a reasonable time frame I dont over do it, probably once every week if at all. However, when having sex with other people, I can be going for 2 or 3 plus hours and be no closer to orgasm then when I started.

While my partners don’t seem to mind a lot, It really is irritating at times, and it also is disappointing to them at times as well (Not all, but a few)

I don’t have any issues with maintaining and erection, but just never am able to climax.

This is constant between people I am dating, or random hookups and flings.

Its to the point where I’ve come to expect that I will never reach climax having sex, and it really just makes sex more of a chore or job and become disinterested.

Is this just a stress thing? I cant imagine it being very normal, as this is a constant, 100% of the time thing since I’ve started, is this something I should discuss with a professional, or am I just over thinking.

I’m concerned mostly because there’s going to be a time in my life where I might want kids of my own, and I just feel like I wont be able to with this issue I am having. Also because I don’t want to leave my partners feeling as though they aren’t good enough, because that sucks.

Just looking for some advice on what I should do in this situation.

For starters, I am 21yo male, and have a healthy sex drive.

When I’m by myself, regardless of method, I seem to have no problems finishing in a reasonable time frame I dont over do it, probably once every week if at all. However, when having sex with other people, I can be going for 2 or 3 plus hours and be no closer to orgasm then when I started.

While my partners don’t seem to mind a lot, It really is irritating at times, and it also is disappointing to them at times as well (Not all, but a few)

I don’t have any issues with maintaining and erection, but just never am able to climax.

This is constant between people I am dating, or random hookups and flings.

Its to the point where I’ve come to expect that I will never reach climax having sex, and it really just makes sex more of a chore or job and become disinterested.

Is this just a stress thing? I cant imagine it being very normal, as this is a constant, 100% of the time thing since I’ve started, is this something I should discuss with a professional, or am I just over thinking.

I’m concerned mostly because there’s going to be a time in my life where I might want kids of my own, and I just feel like I wont be able to with this issue I am having. Also because I don’t want to leave my partners feeling as though they aren’t good enough, because that sucks.