I(18 f/nb) just pegged my boyfriend (19 m) for the first time last night. It’s something we’ve been fantasizing about and discussing for a long time. We always talk about wishing we could trade roles for a week, and feel what each other’s pleasure is like. We have a very healthy sex life and are both just beginning to explore deeper into our sexualities, and we’re both very open to trying things for each other.
So last night we tried it for the first time. I tried to be as gentle as possible, and started small and then worked our way up, but I won’t get to into the details. I kept kissing him and telling him he was doing a great job and I was proud of him. I told him he was totally in control of the situation, and constantly checked in and asked him how he felt and what he wanted. We tried it for a bit and then he got worn out so we called it quits for the night. Afterwards we both agreed that it felt very nice and natural as a dynamic and we definitely want to try it again. I thought it would be awkward for me but I actually liked it a lot and it made me feel pretty euphoric and good about myself.
I’m here to ask for advice, tips, anything the community has to offer. I did as much research as I could to ensure that we both were safe and comfortable and nobody got hurt. But it is something that is naturally a bit painful at the start. How can I move forward with this and make sure it’s something we can both enjoy?
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r/sex I(18 f/nb) just pegged my boyfriend (19 m) for the first time last night. It’s something we’ve been fantasizing about and discussing for a long time. We always talk about wishing we could trade roles for a week, and feel what each other’s pleasure is like. We have a very healthy sex life and are both just beginning to explore deeper into our sexualities, and we’re both very open to trying things for each other. So last night we tried it for the first time. I tried to be as gentle as possible, and started small and then worked our way up, but I won’t get to into the details. I kept kissing him and telling him he was doing a great job and I was proud of him. I told him he was totally in control of the situation, and constantly checked in and asked him how he felt and what he wanted. We tried it for a bit and then he got worn out so we called it quits for the night. Afterwards we both agreed that it felt very nice and natural as a dynamic and we definitely want to try it again. I thought it would be awkward for me but I actually liked it a lot and it made me feel pretty euphoric and good about myself. I’m here to ask for advice, tips, anything the community has to offer. I did as much research as I could to ensure that we both were safe and comfortable and nobody got hurt. But it is something that is naturally a bit painful at the start. How can I move forward with this and make sure it’s something we can both enjoy? submitted by /u/Sad-Cost4086 [link] [comments]
I(18 f/nb) just pegged my boyfriend (19 m) for the first time last night. It’s something we’ve been fantasizing about and discussing for a long time. We always talk about wishing we could trade roles for a week, and feel what each other’s pleasure is like. We have a very healthy sex life and are both just beginning to explore deeper into our sexualities, and we’re both very open to trying things for each other.
So last night we tried it for the first time. I tried to be as gentle as possible, and started small and then worked our way up, but I won’t get to into the details. I kept kissing him and telling him he was doing a great job and I was proud of him. I told him he was totally in control of the situation, and constantly checked in and asked him how he felt and what he wanted. We tried it for a bit and then he got worn out so we called it quits for the night. Afterwards we both agreed that it felt very nice and natural as a dynamic and we definitely want to try it again. I thought it would be awkward for me but I actually liked it a lot and it made me feel pretty euphoric and good about myself.
I’m here to ask for advice, tips, anything the community has to offer. I did as much research as I could to ensure that we both were safe and comfortable and nobody got hurt. But it is something that is naturally a bit painful at the start. How can I move forward with this and make sure it’s something we can both enjoy?
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