Questions to ask to be better talking about sex /u/SarcasticGuy17 Sex

Hi redditors,

Looked thru the search function but didn’t see what I was looking for so I thought I’d start this as it would probably be beneficial.

Fiancée and I are Christians and both virgins. In our pursuit of avoiding temptation leading up to the wedding and her just natural anxiety about it- I feel we have regressed with our ability to talk about sex/romance productively. Our premarital counselor said we should ask each other more questions to help break the ice more, so our spring wedding night won’t be such a sudden change.

So- any questions or conversation starters that helped talk about sex more positively, fire away!! Varying degrees of intensity help, we have to crawl before we can walk 😂

DISCLAIMER: I know there are books out there- please don’t just only recommend a book and not mention questions or conversations that helped.

Thanks in advance,

SarcasticGuy17

Hi redditors,

Looked thru the search function but didn’t see what I was looking for so I thought I’d start this as it would probably be beneficial.

Fiancée and I are Christians and both virgins. In our pursuit of avoiding temptation leading up to the wedding and her just natural anxiety about it- I feel we have regressed with our ability to talk about sex/romance productively. Our premarital counselor said we should ask each other more questions to help break the ice more, so our spring wedding night won’t be such a sudden change.

So- any questions or conversation starters that helped talk about sex more positively, fire away!! Varying degrees of intensity help, we have to crawl before we can walk 😂

DISCLAIMER: I know there are books out there- please don’t just only recommend a book and not mention questions or conversations that helped.

Thanks in advance,

SarcasticGuy17