So it can be hard to get my boyfriend to want to go and do anything if it comes to money. He’ll drop $500 on a trip or hundreds on something for a hobby it can be hard to get him to go do stuff($10-$20).It just seems like he can easily fork out money for things for soley him but not on stuff on us together, even if I pay for myself.
It’s gotten to a point that I just offer to pay so we even go out but it’s becoming super unattractive. Prime example I paid $80 for his birthday dinner but he wants to just grill in the yard with friends for mine. I don’t expect him to pay for things for me but it’s hard wanting to go out having to feel like I have to pay for us both. This is leading to resentment and then he’ll want to have sex and I’m just not into it because I feel like he doesn’t seem to care about spending money on rhind for us to do together. He even makes more money than I do and I get by fine but he’s always saying he doesn’t have money, then will go buy something expensive for him
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r/sex So it can be hard to get my boyfriend to want to go and do anything if it comes to money. He’ll drop $500 on a trip or hundreds on something for a hobby it can be hard to get him to go do stuff($10-$20).It just seems like he can easily fork out money for things for soley him but not on stuff on us together, even if I pay for myself. It’s gotten to a point that I just offer to pay so we even go out but it’s becoming super unattractive. Prime example I paid $80 for his birthday dinner but he wants to just grill in the yard with friends for mine. I don’t expect him to pay for things for me but it’s hard wanting to go out having to feel like I have to pay for us both. This is leading to resentment and then he’ll want to have sex and I’m just not into it because I feel like he doesn’t seem to care about spending money on rhind for us to do together. He even makes more money than I do and I get by fine but he’s always saying he doesn’t have money, then will go buy something expensive for him submitted by /u/helloitsmemargret [link] [comments]
So it can be hard to get my boyfriend to want to go and do anything if it comes to money. He’ll drop $500 on a trip or hundreds on something for a hobby it can be hard to get him to go do stuff($10-$20).It just seems like he can easily fork out money for things for soley him but not on stuff on us together, even if I pay for myself.
It’s gotten to a point that I just offer to pay so we even go out but it’s becoming super unattractive. Prime example I paid $80 for his birthday dinner but he wants to just grill in the yard with friends for mine. I don’t expect him to pay for things for me but it’s hard wanting to go out having to feel like I have to pay for us both. This is leading to resentment and then he’ll want to have sex and I’m just not into it because I feel like he doesn’t seem to care about spending money on rhind for us to do together. He even makes more money than I do and I get by fine but he’s always saying he doesn’t have money, then will go buy something expensive for him
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