My boyfriend and I are struggling with our sex life. He rarely initiates sex and can go 3 weeks to a month without even mentioning it. I get fed up/frustrated and it causes arguments because I want to be having sex at least once a week, if not more. It makes me feel like he is not into me when he avoids sex. It was driving me crazy wondering why our sex life is so weird.. snooped his phone (wrong I know) and found he looks up NSFW Reddit nudes, and tons of porn. In fact when we were on vacation together is Hawaii, I found he was looking at nude girls on Instagram instead of sleeping with me. I ask him all the time to just be upfront. I asked if he has a porn addiction and he says he doesn’t. I ask if he’s not attracted to me and he says that’s not true. (I haven’t gained weight, or changed my appearance drastically) I asked if he’s gay. He says no. I’ve bawled my eyes out telling him how I feel, threatens to move out, and every-time he gets very upset and begs me to stay. There are tons of men who show sexual interest in me but it’s like begging my own boyfriend to please just do it. So please tell me men… why would a man continue to look at nudes of other girls while ignoring his gf sexually??? I don’t look much different from the girls he’s even looking at.
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r/sex My boyfriend and I are struggling with our sex life. He rarely initiates sex and can go 3 weeks to a month without even mentioning it. I get fed up/frustrated and it causes arguments because I want to be having sex at least once a week, if not more. It makes me feel like he is not into me when he avoids sex. It was driving me crazy wondering why our sex life is so weird.. snooped his phone (wrong I know) and found he looks up NSFW Reddit nudes, and tons of porn. In fact when we were on vacation together is Hawaii, I found he was looking at nude girls on Instagram instead of sleeping with me. I ask him all the time to just be upfront. I asked if he has a porn addiction and he says he doesn’t. I ask if he’s not attracted to me and he says that’s not true. (I haven’t gained weight, or changed my appearance drastically) I asked if he’s gay. He says no. I’ve bawled my eyes out telling him how I feel, threatens to move out, and every-time he gets very upset and begs me to stay. There are tons of men who show sexual interest in me but it’s like begging my own boyfriend to please just do it. So please tell me men… why would a man continue to look at nudes of other girls while ignoring his gf sexually??? I don’t look much different from the girls he’s even looking at. submitted by /u/Suspicious-Alfalfa97 [link] [comments]
My boyfriend and I are struggling with our sex life. He rarely initiates sex and can go 3 weeks to a month without even mentioning it. I get fed up/frustrated and it causes arguments because I want to be having sex at least once a week, if not more. It makes me feel like he is not into me when he avoids sex. It was driving me crazy wondering why our sex life is so weird.. snooped his phone (wrong I know) and found he looks up NSFW Reddit nudes, and tons of porn. In fact when we were on vacation together is Hawaii, I found he was looking at nude girls on Instagram instead of sleeping with me. I ask him all the time to just be upfront. I asked if he has a porn addiction and he says he doesn’t. I ask if he’s not attracted to me and he says that’s not true. (I haven’t gained weight, or changed my appearance drastically) I asked if he’s gay. He says no. I’ve bawled my eyes out telling him how I feel, threatens to move out, and every-time he gets very upset and begs me to stay. There are tons of men who show sexual interest in me but it’s like begging my own boyfriend to please just do it. So please tell me men… why would a man continue to look at nudes of other girls while ignoring his gf sexually??? I don’t look much different from the girls he’s even looking at.
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