Today I’ve heard that I should break up with my FWB out of principle. /u/Total-Drama— Sex

To be clear, I’m not gonna stop having the best sex I’ve ever had over one, stupid comment but I’m curious about the… rules? Norms?

I was FWB with this guy for two years. We stopped having sex when he got back with his ex but we still stayed in touch, mainly through work but occasionally we talked, went for a walk etc.

Recently we hooked up again after a very long time. He was already drunk and we’re smoking weed. We started planning our trip to Greece together when he started touching me and talking nonsense like “Fuck, I’ve missed your legs, you’ve got awesome legs, you’re not gonna believe what I’ll do to that smile of yours, I wish you had bigger boobs though”, something like that.

I don’t really have any issues with my body, I genuinely laughed and started teasing him with my “small” boobs.

My friend (we talk about our sexual encounters, the fact I told her this isn’t any sign of my trauma lol) thinks I should break up with him out of principle because it’s a terrible thing to tell a woman and many would feel insecure + the least I could do is to talk to him.

Absolutely, I agree, you shouldn’t say that stuff, people are extra vulnerable during sex. Also, I don’t care. I’m here to have sex, not to educate him.

To be clear, I’m not gonna stop having the best sex I’ve ever had over one, stupid comment but I’m curious about the… rules? Norms?

I was FWB with this guy for two years. We stopped having sex when he got back with his ex but we still stayed in touch, mainly through work but occasionally we talked, went for a walk etc.

Recently we hooked up again after a very long time. He was already drunk and we’re smoking weed. We started planning our trip to Greece together when he started touching me and talking nonsense like “Fuck, I’ve missed your legs, you’ve got awesome legs, you’re not gonna believe what I’ll do to that smile of yours, I wish you had bigger boobs though”, something like that.

I don’t really have any issues with my body, I genuinely laughed and started teasing him with my “small” boobs.

My friend (we talk about our sexual encounters, the fact I told her this isn’t any sign of my trauma lol) thinks I should break up with him out of principle because it’s a terrible thing to tell a woman and many would feel insecure + the least I could do is to talk to him.

Absolutely, I agree, you shouldn’t say that stuff, people are extra vulnerable during sex. Also, I don’t care. I’m here to have sex, not to educate him.