I am very curious what a healthy and active sexual relationship with a long term partner or spouse looks like. How does sexy time get started? Is it planned or spontaneous? How do you incorporate other aspects of sex like toys, oral, kinks, etc?
I ask because my wife and I have been together since we were teenagers. So we no nothing else other than ourselves. This past year, we finally started to go to counseling. Aspects of our relationship including the sexual side had some toxicity brewing. So we decided to tackle the issues together.
Through counseling we have addressed some of the issues, but our sexual relationship still doesn’t feel like it is in a good spot. It is pretty active, but both of us still have issues that don’t seem to be improving. So I was wondering if anyone in a healthy one can describe how some of those aspects I described earlier works for them. The little things like how does a sexual activity or encounter occur? How are favors (oral sex to completion, kink play, etc) given and received? And any other details you feel relevant to share with how it all works for you
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r/sex I am very curious what a healthy and active sexual relationship with a long term partner or spouse looks like. How does sexy time get started? Is it planned or spontaneous? How do you incorporate other aspects of sex like toys, oral, kinks, etc? I ask because my wife and I have been together since we were teenagers. So we no nothing else other than ourselves. This past year, we finally started to go to counseling. Aspects of our relationship including the sexual side had some toxicity brewing. So we decided to tackle the issues together. Through counseling we have addressed some of the issues, but our sexual relationship still doesn’t feel like it is in a good spot. It is pretty active, but both of us still have issues that don’t seem to be improving. So I was wondering if anyone in a healthy one can describe how some of those aspects I described earlier works for them. The little things like how does a sexual activity or encounter occur? How are favors (oral sex to completion, kink play, etc) given and received? And any other details you feel relevant to share with how it all works for you submitted by /u/Anonymous8163 [link] [comments]
I am very curious what a healthy and active sexual relationship with a long term partner or spouse looks like. How does sexy time get started? Is it planned or spontaneous? How do you incorporate other aspects of sex like toys, oral, kinks, etc?
I ask because my wife and I have been together since we were teenagers. So we no nothing else other than ourselves. This past year, we finally started to go to counseling. Aspects of our relationship including the sexual side had some toxicity brewing. So we decided to tackle the issues together.
Through counseling we have addressed some of the issues, but our sexual relationship still doesn’t feel like it is in a good spot. It is pretty active, but both of us still have issues that don’t seem to be improving. So I was wondering if anyone in a healthy one can describe how some of those aspects I described earlier works for them. The little things like how does a sexual activity or encounter occur? How are favors (oral sex to completion, kink play, etc) given and received? And any other details you feel relevant to share with how it all works for you
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