My (26f) and my boyfriend (29m) have been together for 12 years. The other night we were having sex and we were already 30minutes+ into it when he made me orgasm. I rarely ever orgasm and it’s rarely ever a priority for my boyfriend. So I was very happy to orgasm and afterwards I did get a little tired but I could’ve kept going. My boyfriend asks “oh are you too tired to keep going now” before I could even answer he came quickly and we were done. TWO DAYS later he says to me “why is it that when you cum it means sex is over”. I was shocked he would actually say something like this to me. For the past 12 years, 95% of the time he gets to cum only and when he does it means sex is over and done. I asked him “what about all the times you came quickly and sex was over within minutes?” And then he got pissy saying I wasn’t taking his feeling seriously.
Last night we were supposed to do stuff but I couldn’t because I was so hurt by his comments. My orgasm clearly isn’t important at all to him. When I told him this he just got defensive about it. I rarely get to orgasm, it’s hard for me to reach one in general, and for him to complain about it just sucks.
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r/sex My (26f) and my boyfriend (29m) have been together for 12 years. The other night we were having sex and we were already 30minutes+ into it when he made me orgasm. I rarely ever orgasm and it’s rarely ever a priority for my boyfriend. So I was very happy to orgasm and afterwards I did get a little tired but I could’ve kept going. My boyfriend asks “oh are you too tired to keep going now” before I could even answer he came quickly and we were done. TWO DAYS later he says to me “why is it that when you cum it means sex is over”. I was shocked he would actually say something like this to me. For the past 12 years, 95% of the time he gets to cum only and when he does it means sex is over and done. I asked him “what about all the times you came quickly and sex was over within minutes?” And then he got pissy saying I wasn’t taking his feeling seriously. Last night we were supposed to do stuff but I couldn’t because I was so hurt by his comments. My orgasm clearly isn’t important at all to him. When I told him this he just got defensive about it. I rarely get to orgasm, it’s hard for me to reach one in general, and for him to complain about it just sucks. submitted by /u/ventingmythoughts [link] [comments]
My (26f) and my boyfriend (29m) have been together for 12 years. The other night we were having sex and we were already 30minutes+ into it when he made me orgasm. I rarely ever orgasm and it’s rarely ever a priority for my boyfriend. So I was very happy to orgasm and afterwards I did get a little tired but I could’ve kept going. My boyfriend asks “oh are you too tired to keep going now” before I could even answer he came quickly and we were done. TWO DAYS later he says to me “why is it that when you cum it means sex is over”. I was shocked he would actually say something like this to me. For the past 12 years, 95% of the time he gets to cum only and when he does it means sex is over and done. I asked him “what about all the times you came quickly and sex was over within minutes?” And then he got pissy saying I wasn’t taking his feeling seriously.
Last night we were supposed to do stuff but I couldn’t because I was so hurt by his comments. My orgasm clearly isn’t important at all to him. When I told him this he just got defensive about it. I rarely get to orgasm, it’s hard for me to reach one in general, and for him to complain about it just sucks.
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