Would a girl be hurt if I didn’t cum during sex? /u/The_Fluffness Sex

I’ve never cum from sex. It’s just never happened, I can get myself off pretty easily but no one has ever managed to do it. I love sex, I feel very connected, horny and it’s an amazing experience but I usually focus solely on my partners pleasure over my own and usually deal with my own later on. Either masturbating with them, or by myself later. Hell, I’ve even faked an orgasm a couple of times with previous partners.

This fact has always bothered me, because I was always under the impression that most girls prefer the guy to cum from them. and I do, just not from any physical action from them. It’s more of a mental thing for me and hits me later.

Once I get a new job, I’m going to seek some counseling regarding sex, and in general mental health as I think there’s a problem with me. There’s a lot of anxiety for me to do with sex. It’s not enough to make me not want it or that I can’t get hard, but it’s almost like it’s too exciting for me, or something along those lines where I’m too pent up and I can’t focus on my own pleasure at all. In a lot of aspects I get off by my partner getting off.

So my question is, in general how important is it to most girls that a guy finishes from sex with them? For right now, there’s not much I can do about it. I do plan on getting counseling and talking to my doctor soon about it. Because I’d like to!!! ya know….. it’d be nice not to have beat my meat for once and actually cum from sex. Which is also causing more anxiety regarding sex.

I did explain to my new partner that I have trouble cumming from sex. This was the first time I mentioned it to anyone, usually I just go with it but it’s been bugging me recently that I can’t get to that point with anyone. I am bisexual, and it doesn’t matter who I’m with. Guy or girl, I just can’t get there at all from just them. I’ve stopped watching porn, I’ve tried abstaining for a week (really fucking hard to do btw) and it just doesn’t matter, I just can’t cum from any physical action by them, they all feel great!!! but can’t get there without my hand. It’s really depressing because I’ve got a huge breeding kink, and so does my new partner and it’d be really nice to do it and experience that. Or in general experience a non-masturbatory orgasm.

Anyways, this was half vent, half question. Much love and happy fucking!!!

I’ve never cum from sex. It’s just never happened, I can get myself off pretty easily but no one has ever managed to do it. I love sex, I feel very connected, horny and it’s an amazing experience but I usually focus solely on my partners pleasure over my own and usually deal with my own later on. Either masturbating with them, or by myself later. Hell, I’ve even faked an orgasm a couple of times with previous partners.

This fact has always bothered me, because I was always under the impression that most girls prefer the guy to cum from them. and I do, just not from any physical action from them. It’s more of a mental thing for me and hits me later.

Once I get a new job, I’m going to seek some counseling regarding sex, and in general mental health as I think there’s a problem with me. There’s a lot of anxiety for me to do with sex. It’s not enough to make me not want it or that I can’t get hard, but it’s almost like it’s too exciting for me, or something along those lines where I’m too pent up and I can’t focus on my own pleasure at all. In a lot of aspects I get off by my partner getting off.

So my question is, in general how important is it to most girls that a guy finishes from sex with them? For right now, there’s not much I can do about it. I do plan on getting counseling and talking to my doctor soon about it. Because I’d like to!!! ya know….. it’d be nice not to have beat my meat for once and actually cum from sex. Which is also causing more anxiety regarding sex.

I did explain to my new partner that I have trouble cumming from sex. This was the first time I mentioned it to anyone, usually I just go with it but it’s been bugging me recently that I can’t get to that point with anyone. I am bisexual, and it doesn’t matter who I’m with. Guy or girl, I just can’t get there at all from just them. I’ve stopped watching porn, I’ve tried abstaining for a week (really fucking hard to do btw) and it just doesn’t matter, I just can’t cum from any physical action by them, they all feel great!!! but can’t get there without my hand. It’s really depressing because I’ve got a huge breeding kink, and so does my new partner and it’d be really nice to do it and experience that. Or in general experience a non-masturbatory orgasm.

Anyways, this was half vent, half question. Much love and happy fucking!!!