My partner and I are very much in love, and we communicate often and healthily. Our libidos are often mismatched, with mine (M23) being higher than hers(F25), but this is not a problem often. It usually just means I have sex less than I like, which can be disappointing but usually is something we can work out.
However, one thing that is very important to me during sex is to have access of my mouth to breasts. I like breasts, and to me the best, most comforting and pleasurable feeling in the world is having a breast in my mouth while anything else is happening to my penis. My partner, however, gets a really bad reaction to having her nipples sucked, so much so that she describes it as a “depressed, hollow” feeling. We believe it to be a symptom of D-MER(dysphoric milk ejection reflex) even though she is not ejecting milk. It is pretty common according to a lot of other young women.
This is not something I want to trigger for her, but I have this need and don’t want to become resentful for her getting her needs and me not. We live together, share everything, have a side hustle together, and plan our lives to be together forever, but this has been a road block. Any advice?
TL;DR
I have a need to suck on breasts, my partner can’t let me because of Sad Nipple Syndrome, I dont want to become bitter and I love her so much.
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r/sex My partner and I are very much in love, and we communicate often and healthily. Our libidos are often mismatched, with mine (M23) being higher than hers(F25), but this is not a problem often. It usually just means I have sex less than I like, which can be disappointing but usually is something we can work out. However, one thing that is very important to me during sex is to have access of my mouth to breasts. I like breasts, and to me the best, most comforting and pleasurable feeling in the world is having a breast in my mouth while anything else is happening to my penis. My partner, however, gets a really bad reaction to having her nipples sucked, so much so that she describes it as a “depressed, hollow” feeling. We believe it to be a symptom of D-MER(dysphoric milk ejection reflex) even though she is not ejecting milk. It is pretty common according to a lot of other young women. This is not something I want to trigger for her, but I have this need and don’t want to become resentful for her getting her needs and me not. We live together, share everything, have a side hustle together, and plan our lives to be together forever, but this has been a road block. Any advice? TL;DR I have a need to suck on breasts, my partner can’t let me because of Sad Nipple Syndrome, I dont want to become bitter and I love her so much. submitted by /u/chickashady [link] [comments]
My partner and I are very much in love, and we communicate often and healthily. Our libidos are often mismatched, with mine (M23) being higher than hers(F25), but this is not a problem often. It usually just means I have sex less than I like, which can be disappointing but usually is something we can work out.
However, one thing that is very important to me during sex is to have access of my mouth to breasts. I like breasts, and to me the best, most comforting and pleasurable feeling in the world is having a breast in my mouth while anything else is happening to my penis. My partner, however, gets a really bad reaction to having her nipples sucked, so much so that she describes it as a “depressed, hollow” feeling. We believe it to be a symptom of D-MER(dysphoric milk ejection reflex) even though she is not ejecting milk. It is pretty common according to a lot of other young women.
This is not something I want to trigger for her, but I have this need and don’t want to become resentful for her getting her needs and me not. We live together, share everything, have a side hustle together, and plan our lives to be together forever, but this has been a road block. Any advice?
TL;DR
I have a need to suck on breasts, my partner can’t let me because of Sad Nipple Syndrome, I dont want to become bitter and I love her so much.
submitted by /u/chickashady
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