Offended by getting the tap? /u/logpak Sex

I (m51) have always loved giving oral. GF (f46) loves giving as well.

I love finding ways to get her off ahead of me. The first couple months, I’d go down on her & ask for feedback on what turned her on. I don’t think I was ever able to fully get her off but she seemed to be having good time. But I’ve increasingly got the tap a few minutes in and switched to PIV at her request (not that I’m complaining). When asked, she said that it never did that much for her with prior lovers. She’ll occasionally get off with PIV alone but mostly needs to add a toy in. Fine with all.

How should I regard the tap? And should I bag oral going forward?

I (m51) have always loved giving oral. GF (f46) loves giving as well.

I love finding ways to get her off ahead of me. The first couple months, I’d go down on her & ask for feedback on what turned her on. I don’t think I was ever able to fully get her off but she seemed to be having good time. But I’ve increasingly got the tap a few minutes in and switched to PIV at her request (not that I’m complaining). When asked, she said that it never did that much for her with prior lovers. She’ll occasionally get off with PIV alone but mostly needs to add a toy in. Fine with all.

How should I regard the tap? And should I bag oral going forward?